I chose I really don't like them but deal, but that really only applies to my FIL and his wife. My husbands parents divorced when he was a preteen or so and they both moved on and remarried. A year before I met my husband, his mom passed away so I never got to meet her. Ironically, based on what I have heard from my husband and other family members, I think we would have been fast friends.
Anyway, my FIL acts more like a child than I did when I WAS a child! He won't call people, but complains that his children don't call enough. He complains his children don't visit enough, but he never visits us. He's especially irritated when we spend time 'too much' time with the MIL side of the family as they never really liked him when he was married to my MIL.
I moved down there (DH's home state) about 2 months before we got married to try to find a job, yet they didn't even bother coming to meet me. The wedding was in my home town(where we now live)....they went but they didn't bother to meet me until the evening before the wedding....they found it more important to go yardsale shopping the moment they got into town. I later found out that when my husband told my FIL he was getting married, his first reaction was "is she pregnant?" and the day of the wedding, not too long before the wedding, he told my husband "you know you don't have to go through with it, right?". This basically set the tone with my relationship with my FIL and his wife.
My FIL has since said that I am the best thing that ever happened to his son, but that wasn't until about 6 or 7 years into our marriage and everytime he talked to my husband for the first few years of our marriage was to give my husband head trips about some way in which he felt my DH was ruining his life. He wanted to live his dreams though my husband and my husband had different dreams. Now that my husband makes more per year than my FIL ever made, he no longer harps on that stuff....but it took quite a few years of dealing with him playing head games with my husband and my husband telling him off/hanging up the phone on him several times before we got to this point.
So now we don't see him that often and when we do we just put up with it.
My SILs (3 of them)-- I get along with pretty well but I wouldn't say I have bonded greatly with any of them; however, when we all get together we get along pretty well. My one BIL (mothers side, adopted out when MIL was a teen and recently found) is okay (nothing really in common with him) but his wife is quite annoying (passive agressive, manipulative, very needy) and we are glad we live a good 8 or 9 hours away.
I wish we could see my SILs and their families more, but we are all really busy and we all live in different states.