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True love waits in haunted attics
If believing in a god makes you feel fulfilled, I wouldn't talk anyone out of that. I was once a Christian, and my faith made me feel fulfilled in many ways. I sometimes miss that level of fulfillment, that I haven't yet found since deconverting.
So long as your fulfillment doesn't harm another person, I agree completely.
I'm so bewildered by this tendency to put all emphasis on objective evidence, which presupposes that we're not creatures with needs that we desire to satisfy rationally or irrationally, and totally misses just how much of life we engage in that has no evidence or is incommensurate with evidence. Putting reason on a pedestal like this just doesn't understand human psychology, in that nobody believes something "just because" without some potentially very significant emotional connection with his belief, regardless of your religious belief. Reason should be balanced with needs and pragmatism, with what gives us something good or meaningful in our lives.
We should always aim for both, but I think it's incredibly suspect to say we should prefer reason over meaning or goodness, and would actually argue for it being the other way around: choosing what's good when we're not able to determine the veracity of something -- something infinitely different than choosing something we know to be false, but we still do this anyways any time someone beats down our beliefs and we still hold to what they've destroyed virtually every single time. Why is this? Because we're emotionally connected with every single belief we have, which doesn't mean at all that we're determined by our emotions. Each idea we have, no matter the idea, is packaged with warm fuzzies.
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