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Why do you have a problem with homosexuality?

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That's a bit of jumping to conclusions. Let's say homosexuality is a sin, but then, what if a lot of things we do are sins and we just don't know it. To say "What if..." would require you to say "What if..." to everything. There are lots of harmful things in the world not described in the Bible because they are modern, and most of us shake them off as nothing. We assume only things with a connection could be sin when it's possible a lot of what we do is sin. But since the Bible, inspired by God or not, was still written by man, they wouldn't cover things like TVs, computers, cars, or anything to that extent.

So say you get to heaven and God says you were sinning because you were watching TV and harming the eyes which God created for you because of staring into that light.

There's a world of "What ifs". But that's what atheists study. I believe in What Is. And right now, God is. And right now, God is telling me that my sexuality shouldn't stand in the way of my testimony or my desire to share it.
 
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I was answering the question posed in the original post of this topic. Then I answered another question posted by you and Ms. Ohioprof.

TheFathersDaughter said:
So say you get to heaven and God says you were sinning because you were watching TV and harming the eyes which God created for you because of staring into that light.
I'd be screwed,to hell with me. But that's like saying you'll go to hell for just going outside when you have sensitive skin...
 
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No, just going out into the sun. But either way, What If or "Well just to be careful" isn't something you ask in Christianity because you never really know. But that's why God offers us forgiveness.
 
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What do you think of Jesus and the Bible? Out of our reach? Nothing we can really know? There is no malicious intent in these words.

What? None of your suggestions relate to anything I've posted

I don't know, I just think it's pretty ridiculous to ask questions like "What if the will of God happens to coincide with my preconceived beliefs about human sexuality?"
 
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I think her point was more about the What Ifs rather than the hypothetical sin.
 
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That isn't true. Were called to have perseverance and be diligent with painstaking effort.
I am not sure what you are referring to here. I live my life with a great deal of diligent, painstaking effort. Try being a parent, especially a single parent like me, and you'll see what I mean.
 
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No, just going out into the sun. But either way, What If or "Well just to be careful" isn't something you ask in Christianity because you never really know. But that's why God offers us forgiveness.
What if? Hmm, maybe it dosen't work. But here we're talking about an issue where there isn't a "what if".

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What? None of your suggestions relate to anything I've posted

I don't know, I just think it's pretty ridiculous to ask questions like "What if the will of God happens to coincide with my preconceived beliefs about human sexuality?"
I think the answer the OP is looking for is that "would you renounce homosexuality for God if you KNEW it was wrong?" But I guess you wouldn't get an answer out of anyone.

Invisible Trousers said:
Probably not something any of us can conclusively determine.
I saw this and that is why I asked.
 
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The answer is that it isn't wrong, and so why ask the question in the first place?

If you knew that being a woman was against God's will, would you renounce being a woman?

That's how much sense the question about "homosexuality" makes.
 
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"We" shall do nothing, and we shall let gay people be who we are and accept gay people as we are.

UnBiblical

"We" shall not judge gay people or throw stones at gay people. "We" shall leave gay people alone.

unBiblical

The only people who have a problem with "homosexuality" are those who are obsessed with telling gay people that we have a problem.

You do. It's called sin. But you're in the company of everyone else. You just don't think your sin is sin.



Gay people do not have a problem.

Sure they do. It's still called sin.

The people with a problem are those who persist in judging gay people and throwing stones at gay people.

That almost sounds Biblical. Amazing how you tend to accept those parts of the Bible written by as you say "fallible men" that you think support you in your sin.
 
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You continue to accuse me of "sin." What "sin" do you imagine that I engage in? If you are going to claim that I "sin," you need to say what sin this is that you are accusing me of. How can I answer your claims that I seek "support" for my "sin" when you won't tell me what "sin" you are accusing me of committing?

So tell me, please. What "sin" do you imagine that I commit and for which you think I seek support?
 
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I do not think you should wait.

I do not think the Bible tells you to wait and put yourselves through misery.

Get married.

I do not advise getting a permission slip from the state.

Do your own contract.
 
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I do not think you should wait.

I do not think the Bible tells you to wait and put yourselves through misery.

Get married.

I do not advise getting a permission slip from the state.

Do your own contract.
Would you say the same thing to a gay couple?

In John's case, he is arguing that he has to wait to have sex in order to do God's will. But, if we accept John's interpretation of the Bible, gay people can NEVER have sex with anyone. It's not a matter of waiting a few years; some Christians are telling us that we have to wait until we are dead and NEVER enjoy sexual intimacy with anyone.

It's just plain unfair of some Christians to insist on lifelong celibacy for gay people without being willing to impose that rule on themselves.
 
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Did you know the Spirit labels fornication a sin. You should know this.
 
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What difference does it make whether your brother had sex before he got married or not? Instead of labeling it a "sin," why can't you just be supportive and happy for the couple and their child?

Who labeled it a sin? Me or the Spirit? Galatians 5 speaks for itself.
 
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Living for the glory of God is more important than having sexual relationships with people.
 
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I am not sure what you are referring to here. I live my life with a great deal of diligent, painstaking effort. Try being a parent, especially a single parent like me, and you'll see what I mean.


(New American Standard Bible)

Now for this very reason also, applying all diligence, in your faith supply moral excellence, and in your moral excellence, knowledge
2 Peter 1:5

And in your knowledge, self-control, and in your self-control, perseverance, and in your perseverance, godliness
2 Peter 1:6

Diligence:
n.1. Earnest and persistent application to an undertaking; steady effort; assiduity.
2. Attentive care; heedfulness.

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/diligence

And What is perseverence?
n.1. Steady persistence in adhering to a course of action, a belief, or a purpose; steadfastness.


And what course of action and beliefs should you be steadfast towards? Walking in the Spirit of course!
For you were called to freedom, brethren; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. (Galatians 5:13)

When we apply this diligence, it is talking about painstaking effort in walking according to the Spirit:

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
Galatians 5:22-23
 
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