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To further expand on this certain procedures for even how the wiki process is to be used needs to be ironed out first before we can come to any sort of resolution and the wiki process will make any sense.
Yes. And I think people are a little put off and--dare I say it--afraid of contributing? Some of it is the difficulty of learning a new system. Some of it is uncharitable behavior by some of the folks who "got there first" and have staked claims on little bits of language.
Obviously I'm coming late to this party, but I'd still like to throw in my non-Christian vote, although I have a feeling that it will be swallowed by the crushing mass of people reading and commenting on this thread.Hi members
This poll, started by drstevej, was PMed to me recently. I think that it does make a good point and I wanted it moved out of the Conservative Christians forum to the Announcement forum to gather input from other members as well.
The issue here is whether CF's name should be changed and its vision modified to reflect its current framework.
This site at the moment is at a cross-roads, and can go either way. It can either become:
1. A safe social community site with a heavy and strong Christian influence (with the vision being to offer a safe online community, and a secondary vision being to allow Christians to outreach to non-Christians) - which will allow for a name change;
OR
2. Return to a more restricted Christians-only site with a heavy emphasis on uniting mainstream Christians only with a less emphasis on outreach, in which case we keep the name.
Bear in mind that options 1 and 2 are both valid - there is a place for either forums.
I think that at this moment members are frustrated because CF is halfway between options 1 and 2, so members are confused as we have a vision that belongs to option 2 but a setup that is more like option 1.
Therefore, I think we need to make a decision.
I'm going to leave this up to the community. I've extended the above poll to 3rd of August.
I will listen to the members here, and will defer to the final decision.
Please feel free to discuss this issue in this thread.
rollback all changes must fully be talked throughI agree that the wiki system is intimidating.
On the other side of the "staked claims", there is this:
Many, many people have worked for days even weeks and have come very, very close to a consensus. Then, out of the blue comes one person who makes it clear that their way is the only acceptable way, changes the wiki, and alot of people are upset. What do you do then?
Lisa
Perhaps the focus could not be "is this person a Christian" but "is this person posting something that is anti-Christian?
Ah, but it is different than how people's thinking and rhetoric is being expressed now.
Right now, the dispute is framed as "Should non-Christians be allowed to post in Forum X?" I propose that the question be reframed as "What types of posts should we allow in forum X?"
Erwin, Michael does have a point. I was going to put this in a PM but I think it needs to be said in public.I think you have a point there Michael.
Umm that is what it already is because the change came without announcement and was so overwhelming and systemic that none of us are sure what to do when and where ....Erwin, Michael does have a point. I was going to put this in a PM but I think it needs to be said in public.
I appreciate your desire to bring in a wide range of voices and opinions, but you ca
When you changed the rules without consulting anyone, you showed the members and staff of CF that you will take all the work we do and throw it in the garbage if it doesn't mesh with your vision of what CF should be.
It is very difficult to build on ground that has been shown to be unstable. Until you communicate to the members and staff that you know what the vision is and are going to stick with it, you will have a hard time getting people to trust that their work will mean something. CF is totally under your control, and you need to set the boundaries for the work we do.
When you set those boundaries, you will make a lot of people upset. No matter what you do, you will have people telling you that you're betraying Christ. That's the price you pay when you try to further God's kingdom. But you need to stop trying to please us, and worry only and solely about pleasing God. Make some decisions, and stick with them. Otherwise, CF will have nothing but chaos.
Alan
That is always the way it was.
People weren't allowed to post in Forum X precisely because their posts weren't allowed. While there was the Christian vs. unorthodox Christian issue which kept certain posters from posting, there was also the issue of the controversial topics that allowed people to claim Christian icons but disallowed those topics to be discussed.
Either way, nobody was told they weren't Christian. And now you are suggesting going back to the controversial topics list (of some sort)?
I am saying that Erwin needs to make a decision about what CF is about. A lot of people are going to whinge and oppose him no matter what he does, so he might as well do what he thinks God wants and stop worrying about what we think.Alan,
Are you saying Erwin needs to go back to his pronouncements concerning the Nicene Creed as a litmus test and no non Christian moderators. Or are only some of his changes a concern to you?
Steve, WftE
I am saying that Erwin needs to make a decision about what CF is about. A lot of people are going to [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] up a storm no matter what he does, so he might as well do what he thinks God wants and stop worrying about what we think.
Alan
I am saying that Erwin needs to make a decision about what CF is about. A lot of people are going to [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] up a storm no matter what he does, so he might as well do what he thinks God wants and stop worrying about what we think.
Alan
I don't know about CaDan but I'm talking about obvious attempts to blaspheme, tell people God is imaginary (or an intergalactic elf) etc.
And I am asking if you had the same concern when he changed the things I mentioned. Or are you concerned when the changes go in a direction you do not prefer?
Steve, WftE
I am saying that Erwin needs to make a decision about what CF is about. A lot of people are going to [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] up a storm no matter what he does, so he might as well do what he thinks God wants and stop worrying about what we think.
Alan
[bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] up a storm
Smoky Girl,
The comment was to Alan.
Steve, WftE
Sorry... I'm still stuck on this:
I don't think I've ever seen a pastor use that phrase before.
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