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Protoevangel

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there is no point in my retuning here. you all have formed a bad opinion of me anyways, even though you don't know me.

It was nice in the beginning...
I'm sorry you are going away in a huff over this. You obviously believe very strongly in abortion rights. Your increasingly volatile, illogical and non sequitur arguments demonstrate that fact clearly. I hope you will grow to look beyond the politics, and recognize the anti-Christian heinous evil of the abortion industry; disposable children, murdered for convenience and "choice".

If you ever get over your self-exile, I'm sure you will be very welcome back here. I have found the conservative Lutherans to be extremely welcoming to everybody. But I have also found them to be quite ready to defend their doctrine, and Christian values, when they are questioned or denied.
 
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Does it not say in the Bible "Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you"? Know that vle is gone (though hopefully not for long), but I am curious. If I have misquoted scripture, then that is my shame. Such being the case, I don't see how a Christian can justify being "pro-choice" when is it just a euphenism for being "pro-murder"? Even some of the more honest people I know who profess atheism see an unborn child as a living person. This is indeed sad....
 
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there is no point in my retuning here. you all have formed a bad opinion of me anyways, even though you don't know me.

It was nice in the beginning...

See, this is what I dislike about debating on the internet. Basically what you're saying is "hey, I can't make a clear and concise argument that's based in facts rather than party/group rhetoric so I'm going to take my toys and go home."

You're also doing what you're accusing us of doing, making a judgment call about our inner feeling/positions rather than actually reading the facts that we've stated and answering the questions that have been put forth to you.

I'd much rather you came back armed with FACTS than for you to go away thinking that we have "bad opinions of [you]". I've followed your posts in other threads and I can honestly say I've not seen anyone show any "bad opinions of [you]". Toward your arguments, toward the way you've "debated" here, sure. But to you personally? I think it's rather unfair of you to say something like this since everyone here has been nothing but cordial to you with exception to this thread. You can't expect to come into a CONSERVATIVE forum and expect that your very very LIBERAL beliefs are going to get a warm welcome. And it's also unfair of you to get mad at us for defending our views and positions. Check out the Constitution...we're ALL granted free speech.

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For the umpteeth time - - I was NOT talking about abortion itself, but about judging others based on that one fact of being pro-choice and calling them UnChristian.

So all the rhetoric about abortion was completely irrelevant. And I tried to explain that I was not arguing that point, but offering the other perspective.

Read the first sentence on my first post on the subject... it started out something to the effect of... to play devil's advocate.... Not meaning the literal "devil" ... but using it in the way where we put on the other hat to see their perspective...

I was calling out the part about judging others....

My references about judging others... (I came back so that I could provide those, since someone asked.)



I am sure someone is going to want to go back to making this about whether abortion is right or wrong again because people can not see beyond that word. I don't believe I EVER said it was right or wrong... just that it is ugly on both sides and no one has proposed a solution that solves both sides. And if someone did have a better solution, I'd be all for it.

I can not agree with a blanket statement that someone is not Christian based on being pro-choice (or even an adulterer, theif, fornicator, or any other sinful behaviour). Sure the sin is not a good thing but we shouldn't say "You sinned", now turn in your Christian membership card...." Even with things that we know we continually struggle with and try to reconcile...

I am not talking about liberal vs. conservative, or telling anyone to change their personal views on abortion. Get that out of your head.

I really really do not want to fight with anyone about abortion. I hate the topic because there is no winner on either side. Both sides have good points and bad points. Both sides lose no matter what. There's no winners. Either way people get hurt. It's ugly sticky yucky and very unfortunate.

If we could control the actions of the world and have everyone be happy, that would be hunky dory. But there are atheists and prostitues and rapists and adulterers and people who just don't care about anyone but themselves. It's not good. It's not right. I don't like it... but that's the way it is.

So to those people, God's Law and right and wrong and "keeping your pants on" are just not solutions. And the government can not make people be Christian, or abstain from sex, or any of those other perfect world solutions. (Notice I didn't say they were right or wrong? I suggest it as an explanation of how it can be looked upon when a person chooses to make a pro-choice stand. They often look at it as a question of how much control should the government have rather than the act itself.)

Again, I only offer it as how a Christian person can look at it and arrive at the decision to be pro-choice and at the same time be Christian. I am not arguing for it. I am not defending it. Just that it is possible for a Christian person to arrive at a certain conclusion.

Be pro-Life. Be conservative. That is certainly your right to do so.

And even though I have a comical version in my signature, I do find the Serenity Prayer applicable to life in general.







I hope I have answered the various questions and accusations...

I did not say it was what I believed. I said it was what a pro-choice Christian believes.

I didn't say I agreed with it. I questioned the practice judging someone as non Christian... for any reason.

My "HUFF" is that it seems like everyone is not able to see past the word abortion and understand that the entire time I am talking about judging others as non-Christian. Insert any other sin in place of abortion and I'd have the same argument.

My position is not about abortion. It is about judging others.

I'll say it again in case it is still not clear... my point is that we should not judge others.

I am not judging your position of being pro-life. I am not questioning God's Law. I am not saying that abortion is ok.

I did throw on the pro-choice hat to really consider how a Christian could go through a thought process and arrive at a pro-choice answer. I can understand it.

Since there is not a perfect solution to satisfy ALL citizens in the USA, we have two losing sides and people are forced to pick one. It divides us as a country, it divides us as Christians, it divides our denominations and parishes across the world.

And judging someone as not Christian does nothing to help the cause. It won't stop abortions, it won't bring people closer to God, it won't impact anyone to change their views. What it will do is it will split us further. It will chase people out of the Church who might otherwise have been able to thrive and grow closer to God and gain more understanding. It will spilt us further into more denominations, branches, synods, atheists and more.

Do you understand yet what I was getting at? Am I that poor of a communicator?

Do you understand yet that I never said you were wrong about abortion? Do you understand yet that my issue is with judging someone as not Christian? I see that as being harmful to them, particularly if they know that you say that. It can make them angry, bitter, and chase them away. Why would they want to come in to fellowship with people who are judinging them?

If you embrace them as your fellow Christian, and lead by example, perhaps they will reach the same understanding that you have at a point that is comfortable for them. Perhaps not. We never know.

I don't know, perhaps I am just wrong about everything. Does that make me un-Christian???
 
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I wonder what it is called when someone picks which verses they are going to believe, and which they are going to ignore?

 
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And what we are saying is that if someone claims to love the Lord with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength and love their neighbor as themselves, yet believes and supports the slaughter of innocent human lives (something that the Scriptures clearly state is an abomination to God) does need to be confronted with the genuiness of their faith. It's a contradiction of terms. We, as Christians, are indeed called to confront our erring brothers and sisters.
Ephesians 5:11 "And do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them."

I will stand by my earlier statement. I do not understand how a Christian can be pro-choice.​
 
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If someone claims adultery is ok, that stealing is ok, that fornicating is ok, or that any other sinful behavior is ok, then yes, I would question whether they were truly Christian, or a wolf in sheeps clothing.

On the other hand, anyone can fall into sin, whether that be abortion, adultery, theft, fornication, etc. That's why we have repentance, confession and absolution.

Please try to understand the difference between falling into sin, vs. teaching that sin is not sin. Until you learn that difference, you will have a real hard time understanding the conversations in here.
 
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Vle, for me it was never a question as to whether you supported abortion or not. You'll recall that I actually asked if you were pro-choice.

For me, it was that you were saying we couldn't and shouldn't judge, when the bible clearly says that we SHOULD and COULD judge, when the actions that one is submitting are not Christian actions. Being pro-choice is not a Christian action. There's no way to sugarcoat it. Just like being pro-adultery or being pro-thievery. People would scoff if someone called themselves pro-adultery, but it's the same principle.

It's not that you are a bad communicator. It's the point you are trying to communicate is going to be lost on conservative, moral Christians who cannot fathom a pro-choice stance.
 
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Along the lines of what Proto is saying....if a woman has an abortion, and later is sorry for it, and asks for forgiveness from God, that forgiveness is of course granted.

But teaching that abortion is ok, just because a person cares only for their own wants or needs, and totally ignores Scripture, IS living a life of continuous sin and denial of such as being a sin.

It would be sinful for us as Christians not to point this out to that person. Literally sticking our heads in the sand and ignoring it, is not Christian-like behavior.

Also, I know a woman who was engaged, and was raped by another man. Her fiance still married her, and raised the beautiful boy as his very own. I know of another highschool aged girl who was raped, and became pregnant...she and her family have brought up this child in the Christian faith. God can, and does, work in even these most horrible conditions. His power is beyond our comprehention.
 
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I did not know that any lutheran pastors taught their kids the santa myths as truth.
Rather than blame you for it i would rather ask why?
 
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That's because we don't teach the myth as truth. We don't teach myth at all. We just like to have a little bit of fun with Santa. My oldest has known there was no such thing as Santa for as long as he can remember. He still gets one present from Santa, though, for fun. He also gets a present from the dog, one from the cat and one from the fishes.

The issue with Santa Claus is when families put the focus on the wrong person.
 
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