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Helo said:
Being willing to die for someone without a second's hesitation
I don't know if the Secret Service love the president.

I'd say, caring about someone to the point where their well-being affects yours.

And for romantic love I'd add that you should have sexual and passionate feelings about this other person.
 
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There are different forms and variations of love, from the love of one's parents and siblings, to the love of one's friends, to the love of one's spouse, to the love one holds for something that fascinates them, and others. Love itself, even 'true love' is not so easy to pin down.
 
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What is Love?
Baby don't hurt me,
don't hurt me no more.



Sorry... it had to be done.

Seriously..... If you want to understand love I would suggest that you look at the words for it in another language. That does sound odd eh?

What I mean is that English has all of...erm.. one word for love. If it is your brother or father or lover or whatever we use the same word.
 
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Origins: The word Love is from Old English lufu, connected with Sanskrit lubh, 'to desire' and Latin lubere, 'to please'.

Biblical Definition of Love: 1 Corithians
Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things; believes all things; hopes all things; endures all things.

Webster's Definition of Love: Love is a strong liking for someone. It's a strong passionate affection for another person.

My Definition: I have often thought I understood and knew what love was. I have often found out how wrong I was. I didn't understand love - both romantic and spiritual love - until I experienced them. What I have learned is no words can properly explain what Love is - because its more than a word - its a state of being.
 
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What is love ?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love

Oh I don't know
Why you're not fair
I give you my love
But you don't care
So what is right
And what is wrong
Give me a sign

What is love
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more
What is love
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more

Oh I don't know
What can I do
What else can I say
It's up to you
I know we're one
Just me and you
I can't go on



I want no other
No other love
This is your life
our time
When we are together
I need you forever
Is it love
 
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Ampoliros said:
No, but the biological reaction might.
Biology doesnt explain the things people do for love either.

Actually biology should work AGAINST love.

There was a man several years back who stepped between a gunman and his wife and took a bullet to the chest.

Biologically, that man shouldnt have done that.His own survival instincts should have made him stay put. Your instinct for survival is paramount above all else.

The divine order of our instincts goes

1. Life
2. Food


When one is satisfied, we can move on to the next. Your instinct for survival is THE most powerful drive you have, followed by your drive to eat, then by your drive to mate. NOTHING biological should be able to motivate you to ignore the strongest natural urge that you have.

This is one of the reasons I think love is more than biological.
 
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That's not true. All through history, people have risked their lives for things. In war, for other people, hell, just to get drug money.

Love is a Pavlonian reaction. Let's say you meet an attractive girl. Your reproductive instincts will kick in, releasing a whole flood of hormones and chemicals. If you knock it off with her, much like Pavlov's dogs, you'll subconsciously associate those biological reactions with the presence or thought of the girl. Hence, love.
 
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