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William II said:I don't believe that it's the governments responsibility to regulate your personal life or what you put in/do to your body. Is abortion right? No. I sure as hell wouldn't get one, but I'm not everybody.
William II said:I don't believe that it's the governments responsibility to regulate your personal life or what you put in/do to your body. Is abortion right? No. I sure as hell wouldn't get one, but I'm not everybody.
If a fetus is not a life - what did Jesus mean when He said 'I knew you before you were born.'
FrancesJames09 said:Well, what do you want him to do? Observe everybody at the same time and force them not to get abortions? There's something called pragmatism. In a perfect world maybe we would be able to reach out to people and change their hearts and minds and then they wouldn't have abortions; maybe we would have better social programs able to help women who feel that they have to have abortions--programs could help women see that there's another option as many of them don't.
The fact of the matter is that not every woman can be stopped from having an abortion--even if it were illegal. And if women are going to have abortion whether the law is legal or not I would rather that she have the ability to have it done safely and the only way that an abortion can be done safely is if it's legal. In my estimation it prevents a greater evil--it prevents women from attempting to perform abortions on themselves or going to some "person they heard of's" back alley or to that shabby little office near the edge of town.
I've heard the stories of how things were back then and I certainly don't get the impression that they were prolife. I've read enough about women from different parts of the world who have to give themselves abortions because they don't have enough food to eat and they themselves are starving--terrible stories. It just doesn't seem better to me.
We want to have the debate as to the morality of abortions? We don't need to, we already agree--We don't like it.
Now, as to the legality of abortion--a separate issue altogether--tell me why I shouldn't care about the woman's life in the situation at all. Tell me why I shouldn't consider what her life might be if abortion is illegal. Tell me why I shouldn't care if she tries to perform an abortion on herself and dies? Convince me of this and then maybe, if your reasons are good enough, I'll change my mind.
FrancesJames09 said:I always thought that he was referring to our souls. Regardless, there are instances discussed already where the Bible prescribes abortion. I agree with you that abortion is wrong, but the Bible is useless in justifying any moral position since the slaughter of infants born and not is sanctioned by God in instances of war and there is at least one point where the Bible sanctions what we ourselves would consider an abortion.
Just to bring everyone up to speed. The one point, that you are talking about, where the bible "sanctions" an abortion is in fact performed by God through a priest. Not by a doctor or anyone else.
So you are saying that since we are not in a perfect world we should not reach out to people and try to change their heart and minds?
Of corse not every abortion can be stopped, but if people realize that every abortion kills an innocent Human Being then fewer abortion would occur.
The debate as to the morality of abortion is not that "we don't like it", it is that abortion is wrong and immoral.
By the way, when abortion was illegal far fewer women were performing abortions on themselves then we might believe.
And why would you care more for the life of the mother than the life of the unborn? Shouldn't they both be considered special and protect them equally?
FrancesJames09 said:Correction: not God but through a priest; a priest acting on a man's suspicion of his wife's infidelity. An infusion of rue, which is what this potion was, would cause a miscarriage. God has nothing to do with it, I thin. I don't see how making a pregnant woman consume a potion made of rue would result in anything but a miscarriage unless she were lucky and the ratio of rue/ water were off. This "dust" that is mentioned is rue powder, rue itself having often been brought before the altar.
Nope. Go back and read what I said. I never said, "Don't bother trying to change hearts and minds," what I said was that since you can't stop people from having abortions even though you do your best to change their minds. In those instances, it's either have it be legal and let them do it safely (legally) or make it illegal and let them take their chances doing it themselves.
This is not necessarily true. Almost all the women I've spoken to who have had abortions have said they felt that they were killing their child--a human being--but that they felt that they couldn't make any other choice. That being said, the abortion rates in this country compared with those in other countries (read countries without legalised abortion) is much lower.
Right, but I guess I just presumed, and wrongly so for that and I do apologise, that you based your moral position on the Bible. You can't use the Bible for a prolife stance, unless you ignore a lot, since in certain instances God sanctions abortion. Not only that, but in times of war, God seems perfectly alright with the notion of taking children's lives, even those in the womb.
Hosea 13:16 (New Living Translation) - The people of Samaria must bear the consequences of their guilt because they rebelled against their God. They will be killed by an invading army, their little ones dashed to death against the ground, their pregnant women ripped open by swords."
Isaiah 13:18 (New Living Translation) -- "The attacking armies will shoot down the young men with arrows. They will have no mercy on helpless babies and will show no compassion for children."
At that time Menahem, starting out from Tirzah, attacked Tiphsah and everyone in the city and its vicinity, because they refused to open their gates. He sacked Tiphsah and ripped open all the pregnant women. (2 Kings 15:16)
I guess what we see here is that life is only precious and innocent if it's on our side. I think that Jesus does a lot for the pro-life movement by talking about love off all people, that doesn't take away the bad parts of the Bible, too. What would you take away from these passages? Abortion is okay as long as the woman is an adulteress or as long as she belongs to an enemy? So priests can make concoctions of powder and armies can rip open pregnant women, but a doctor in a sterile room can't perform an abortion to keep a woman from making an even more drastic decision?
I'm not sure whether that's true or not. Since abortion was illegal in those days there are no statistics that we could use to compare. My mother's a child of the forties and seems to remember that it happened to women she knew.
Of course you should, I never said otherwise. What I'm talking about is that one woman who is going to have an abortion whose mind is made up and whom you can't stop. She is going to have the abortion. You have two choices ahead of you: One, abortion is legalised so she can have it done safely; two, she takes her chances and performs an abortion on herself or has her friend do it or whatever.
Which of these two choices do you prefer?
This is a realistic scenario since in reality, you cannot stop a woman from having an abortion: whether it's legal or illegal women will be having them.
To agree that abortion is wrong but necessary to protect the mother from the dangers of a self performed abortion totally disregards the fact that an innocent life is being taken in the process. Either it is wrong or it is not. You cannot have it both ways.
FrancesJames09 said:Correction: not God but through a priest; a priest acting on a man's suspicion of his wife's infidelity. An infusion of rue, which is what this potion was, would cause a miscarriage. God has nothing to do with it, I thin. I don't see how making a pregnant woman consume a potion made of rue would result in anything but a miscarriage unless she were lucky and the ratio of rue/ water were off. This "dust" that is mentioned is rue powder, rue itself having often been brought before the altar.
Nope. Go back and read what I said. I never said, "Don't bother trying to change hearts and minds," what I said was that since you can't stop people from having abortions even though you do your best to change their minds. In those instances, it's either have it be legal and let them do it safely (legally) or make it illegal and let them take their chances doing it themselves.
This is not necessarily true. Almost all the women I've spoken to who have had abortions have said they felt that they were killing their child--a human being--but that they felt that they couldn't make any other choice. That being said, the abortion rates in this country compared with those in other countries (read countries without legalised abortion) is much lower.
Right, but I guess I just presumed, and wrongly so for that and I do apologise, that you based your moral position on the Bible. You can't use the Bible for a prolife stance, unless you ignore a lot, since in certain instances God sanctions abortion. Not only that, but in times of war, God seems perfectly alright with the notion of taking children's lives, even those in the womb.
Hosea 13:16 (New Living Translation) - The people of Samaria must bear the consequences of their guilt because they rebelled against their God. They will be killed by an invading army, their little ones dashed to death against the ground, their pregnant women ripped open by swords."
Isaiah 13:18 (New Living Translation) -- "The attacking armies will shoot down the young men with arrows. They will have no mercy on helpless babies and will show no compassion for children."
At that time Menahem, starting out from Tirzah, attacked Tiphsah and everyone in the city and its vicinity, because they refused to open their gates. He sacked Tiphsah and ripped open all the pregnant women. (2 Kings 15:16)
I guess what we see here is that life is only precious and innocent if it's on our side. I think that Jesus does a lot for the pro-life movement by talking about love off all people, that doesn't take away the bad parts of the Bible, too. What would you take away from these passages? Abortion is okay as long as the woman is an adulteress or as long as she belongs to an enemy? So priests can make concoctions of powder and armies can rip open pregnant women, but a doctor in a sterile room can't perform an abortion to keep a woman from making an even more drastic decision?
I'm not sure whether that's true or not. Since abortion was illegal in those days there are no statistics that we could use to compare. My mother's a child of the forties and seems to remember that it happened to women she knew.
Of course you should, I never said otherwise. What I'm talking about is that one woman who is going to have an abortion whose mind is made up and whom you can't stop. She is going to have the abortion. You have two choices ahead of you: One, abortion is legalised so she can have it done safely; two, she takes her chances and performs an abortion on herself or has her friend do it or whatever.
Which of these two choices do you prefer?
This is a realistic scenario since in reality, you cannot stop a woman from having an abortion: whether it's legal or illegal women will be having them.
Let's throw some corrections your way. First, Numbers 5:11 & 12 says "Then the LORD spoke to Moses, saying, Speak to the sons of Israel, and say to them..." Which tells us that God is speaking to Israel, and what He is about to say is for Israel alone. Second, Numbers 5:21 says "The LORD make you a curse and an oath among your people, by the LORD'S making your thigh waste away, and your abdomen swell;" Now who is causing this to happen to the woman? Not the priest, but God.
Yes, priests can make concoctions of powder (if commanded by God) and armies can rip open pregnant women (if commanded by God), but a doctor in a sterile room can't perform an abortion (unless commanded by God). These people didn't kill on there own, they were commanded to by God.
God killing people in the Old Testament, whether it's the unborn or not has nothing to do with us thinking it is ok for us to do the same. God does not sanction abortions. God creates life and He can take it away, at any time, for any reason. We, on the other hand are never told, in the Bible, to perform abortions.
I would choose and advocate the third choice, have the baby and give it up for adoption. No one harmed and no one killed.
Let's throw some corrections your way. First, Numbers 5:11 & 12 says "Then the LORD spoke to Moses, saying, Speak to the sons of Israel, and say to them..." Which tells us that God is speaking to Israel, and what He is about to say is for Israel alone. Second, Numbers 5:21 says "The LORD make you a curse and an oath among your people, by the LORD'S making your thigh waste away, and your abdomen swell;" Now who is causing this to happen to the woman? Not the priest, but God.
Yes, priests can make concoctions of powder (if commanded by God) and armies can rip open pregnant women (if commanded by God), but a doctor in a sterile room can't perform an abortion (unless commanded by God). These people didn't kill on there own, they were commanded to by God.
God killing people in the Old Testament, whether it's the unborn or not has nothing to do with us thinking it is ok for us to do the same.
God does not sanction abortions.
God creates life and He can take it away, at any time, for any reason. We, on the other hand are never told, in the Bible, to perform abortions.
I would choose and advocate the third choice, have the baby and give it up for adoption. No one harmed and no one killed.
FrancesJames09 said:But if God were the one doing it, we wouldn't need the potion.
This . . . this isn't better. How is a woman to discern the voice of God here? How is a man? How is anybody? The situation is an abhorrent one. I dreamt of God doing good things for humanity but I never imagined things like this. If God can allow these things to happen then how are you to know whether a woman having an abortion isn't being led by God? Not that I think it's a good thing since all of the instances here mentioned look ugly. I know enough about myself to know that I think abortion is wrong but I have the wisdom to see that there isn't really a precursor to a notion of God's unilateral dislike of the murder of children in the Bible since He Himself seems to have ordered it many times.
But it does get to your underlying argument (and sorry if I'm presuming here) which is that God unilaterally disaproves of the murder of children whether in the womb or not. This makes room for an interpretation.
Unless in times of war or in cases of adultery.
Unless in times of war or in cases of adultery.
So would I, but what about for that one woman whose mind is made up and who will have the abortion, far away, and whose mind you cannot change? You advocate and council adoption but she won't listen--what then? Should she go to a doctor or take her chances?
So even thou the bible said God did it, you still don't believe God did it.
"How is a woman to discern the voice of God here?" Because God is telling this to Moses and Israel believed Moses spoke for God. This is not how it happens today.
I don't think it is a good idea to say God sanctions abortion by reading that God does take some unborn lives. By that same reasoning we could falsely say God sanctions killing by reading in the Bible that He takes some lives.
As far as I know vaccinations and chemotherapy do not kill Human Beings. So you would be incorrect.
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