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Just like we don't trust our spouse the first time we meet them, so too Christian trust is in a person we grow to trust over time with much a priori and aposteriori evidence.
This is trivially disposed of. I certainly trusted my spouse the first time I met her. It was the subsequent thousands of meetings that gradually eroded the feeling.

The same is true for many apostate Christians.
 
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So this is a great question. The same way you know many of the things in your world. Since we are talking to atheists and theists, we want to include justification and evidence the way the apostles argued the gospel and Christian claims.

We can argue for the theist that the HS plays a role in helping us understand deeper truths and mature in our trust of Jesus through the ever-increasing evidence that accrues to those who trust him. But since this sort of trust (Faith is trust in the scriptures), via experience and communication with the HS seems lunacy to the non-believer, we should argue as they did, from the evidence that they themselves knew to be true, then from prophecy of books the Jews trusted to be true (specifically OT prophecy), and and inference that Jesus actually came to die for their sins, so this is through rational description of OT texts and some evidence and testimony or Jesus' own claims and teaching, and the evidence of the empty tomb and changed lives of the apostles.

So this is all available to you even if you choose not to spend time educating yourself on things like natural theology, which are rational arguments from premises even atheists take to be true arguing to the existence of a monotheistic God.
 
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This is trivially disposed of. I certainly trusted my spouse the first time I met her. It was the subsequent thousands of meetings that gradually eroded the feeling.

The same is true for many apostate Christians.
Think you misread my text.

"so too Christian trust is in a person we grow to trust over time." So the opposite of what you represented above.
Secondly it is not so trivial since when engaging my apostate Christian former brothers and asking about their experience of means of growth I get, "What the heck are you talking about?"

So it would be like you getting married, then never telling your spouse you loved them, never going on date-night, never demonstrating love in their own love language, never doing work to pay the bills, never doing chores around the house, and then sleeping around, and then after your spouse finally divorced you saying, "marriage doesn't work, it's a scam, after all I was married and see my wife divorced me."

It is not so straightforward and trivial as your post suggested.
You're resurrecting a thread that's been quiet for a year and half to respond to someone who hasn't been on for 5 months?

Is this "tricks Christians play"?
Your spending a lot of time commenting on non-sequiturs assuming that we are all tracking the same trivial data you are.

This seems like your MO (throwing peanuts from the peanut gallery). By all means join the conversation you certainly must have something more substantive to share.
 
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Think you misread my text.
Au contraire. I believe you misread mine. If you refer to the second item in my signature you will see that is my responsibility not yours.

I understand you to argue that trust with a loved one grows over time. If that is not what you meant then I did misread you. However, taking it to be the correct interpretation I noted the following - now rephrased for (hopefully) clarity.

Contrary to what you believe to be the case I trusted my wife from the outset. That was certainly true, though it contradicts your expectation. The trust eroded over time.

"so too Christian trust is in a person that we grow to trust over time." So the opposite of what you represented above.
I have inserted a "that" as this makes your sentence read more clearly for me. I understand that the this growing Christian trust is in Jesus. If that is not the case then I'm lost as to what you were aiming to say and I ask you to clarify.
However, if I do have your meaning correct then yes, that is the opposite of what I represented above, since I am disagreeing with you.

Secondly it is not so trivial since when engaging my apostate Christian former brothers and asking about their experience of means of growth I get, "What the heck are you talking about?
There are two completely disparate points to be made here:

1. When one says something is trivially disposed of this does not mean that the subject matter is necessarily trivial. It means that the argument that has been presented can be refuted in a straightforward, direct fashion. This is a common phrase within scientific discussions and I credit members participating in a science sub-forum with familiarity with such terms until the contrary is demonstrated.***
2. I think "What the heck are you talking about?" is a valid comment in those circumstances.

It is not so straightforward and trivial as your post suggested.
My post was intended to do two things:
1. Provide some light relief. (For the record I have learned those behaviours in which she is not to be trusted and have learned to accomodate those. I daresay she has done the same with me.)
2. Provide an analogy for the emergence of apostasy among some Christians. Your argument appears to be that they never worked at becoming good Christians. My argument is that they came to see weaknesses in the religion that gradually became insurmountable.

It is not so straightforward and trivial as your post suggested
As noted, I am not saying it is trivial. I went into as much detail as your simplified statement merited. If you make an unsubstantiated assertion, I have no compunction in responding in kind. Present a detailed, evidentially supported argument and I'll match it.

*** I almost never post in this sub-forum. 90% of my posts are in the science forums, which is where I thought this one was. Hence my use of trivial, in its scientific usage, outside of that setting was presumptuous and I apologise for that.
 
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The best way to turn a christian into an atheist is to get them to actually read the bible. It worked for me!
 
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The best way to turn a christian into an atheist is to get them to actually read the bible. It worked for me!
I remember telling the full story of Samson to a room full of my Catholic in-laws. They were shocked and floored at how absurd it all was.
 
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The best way to turn a christian into an atheist is to get them to actually read the bible. It worked for me!
Now that is an interesting discussion indeed.
I have taught the Bible for almost 40 years now with a focus on a deep understanding of the authors, their culture, the other accounts they borrowed and modified to correct the record, historical examinations, and examinations of prophecies that were fulfilled. I find the cultural strange as I find any read of 3500 year old cultures but have not seen my students experience a loss of trust in God as a result of reading the Bible.

I would be interested in a deeper understanding of what is troubling beyond generalities.
 
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If you actually read the bible (& not just the hand picked bits the church teaches in bible study) & really think deeply about it, you begin to realise the absurdity of the whole belief.

You also realise all the contradictions that are in it. If you were reading the same stories about anybody else, you would never believe it to be true, but because from a young age we are taught that there is a god who can work magic, & that its rude to disrespect religion, & because so many other people believe it, for some of us we somehow think its true, even though it makes no rational sense at all that it IS true.
 
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I was never taught from a young age that "God will work magic." And if there was anything I did learn while growing up, it was that if there was a God, He seemed vastly interested in seeing if I could learn to endure....
 
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I was never taught from a young age that "God will work magic." And if there was anything I did learn while growing up, it was that if there was a God, He seemed vastly interested in seeing if I could learn to endure....
learn to endure what?
 
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...the fact that my mother was clinically schizophrenic and put my family through emotional hell. Nothing major.
sorry to hear that happened to you, but what makes you think god was interested in you enduring that?
 
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what makes you think god was interested in you enduring that?

I was being tongue-in-cheek in describing my religious context, such as it was---and it wasn't much---while I was growing up. My parents would take us occasionally to the local liberal Presbyterian church, but we scarcely went, and we rarely if ever talked about God or the Bible in our household.

Obviously, what little 'belief' I had as a young child going into my teenage years was mostly put into the furnace of social isolation, extreme loneliness, frustration, and futility. So, that's why I've alluded to the interpretation that God must have wanted me to learn to endure. Now, whether I'll actually spiritually weather this life on the whole remains to be seen, but I can at least safely say that I wasn't one of those young children who was coddled in emotional pie-in-the-sky along with Christian indoctrination.

Do you have another interpretation of all that?
 
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