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I worked in the NICU today. I loved it. However, I am having a real hard time knowing that babies can be legally aborted when they are older than all my patients were at birth. One of my patients was born at 23 weeks, one at 27 weeks, and the third was born at 24 weeks.

There was a little 2lb little boy who was just born at 24 weeks holding his own. The idea that Dr Goswell could deliver and kill babies who were 28 weeks old, makes me sick. How could you hold such a perfect little human and not recognizes its humanity.
 
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The people ,who perform abortions ,are just in denial. It is ironic,when people claim they have seen space aliens.By the drawings of these "aliens,these aliens look like a human fetus,with their big eyes.
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Are we really that much better than the Baal worshipers of old who sacrificed children? When you hear some people talk about choice, privacy, freedom, and science, these are little more than code words for abortion on demand, which is now a core value in our civic "religion." I really don't think our society has a future.
 
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I really think since we (US law) allow abortions that people should figure it out by the end of the 1st term at the latest. Its a tough decision, but still not that much will change in a few extra weeks, so make the decision early or take it to term and put the baby up for adoption. That is far the more honorable thing to do.
 
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I think as a society we make it hard for women to put up babies for adoption. The "honor" is in keeping it because that means you are a "good" mother and you "love" your baby. Instead of recognizing that often those who put their babies up are "lovingly" recognizing that they can't give their babies the life that they deserve.

I hate the word "fetus"...that is a baby that is still a "throw away" because it hasn't gained the status of "human being" yet. As a healthcare worker, we have to treat a pregnant woman as "two patients" while the Pro-choice people still call that little patient a "choice" that they should be allowed to throw away.

The problem with 1st term is quite a few women don't know they are pregnant yet. But by eight weeks when it is changed from an embryo to a fetus, a baby has already developed all its organs...the rest of the time is spent fine tuning and growing. I say it is human at conception...the "choice" is made at the time that two people get naked.
 
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aside from women being raped I wish people would just NOT have sex or take birth control if they don't wish to be pregnant! I know it's unrealistic but that's what I wish.

I too believe it is a human when it is conceived because God says he knit us in our mother's womb.

Another problem is we make it WAY too easy to get abortions and WAY to hard to adopt children. There are alot of people that would probably adopt but can't because of money or status, like being single and it's just not fair.

I hate the word "choice" in Pro choice because IMO they made that "choice" when they opened their legs (unless they were raped)

And I don't think the Dr's that do these abortions are in denial, they have no soul IMO. I think you have to be souless to take a baby's life that cannot fight or defend itself.
 
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Right on,sister,you said it all!
 
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