Where do they go? Easy. They go away. They have been, in many cases, psychologically brutalized, emotionally traumatized, and economically punished to the point where a lot of them have simply said, "To hell with it. I'm not even going to try anymore; I'm done." And they just unplug from the society that has slapped them upside the head one too many times. They get a job that pays them just enough to support themselves, have a few male friends to have a beer with or go fishing occasionally, work on their interests and hobbies, and refuse to have anything to do with women---because they view women as dangerous. All it takes is one false accusation of sexual harassment, and some poor schlub who did nothing more than smile at a woman and say, "Good morning" is suddenly a pariah, doomed to wander the earth bearing the mark of Cain.
Men have been told by 3rd-wave feminists that "No means no", and much to the uneasy surprise of many women, they have taken the message to heart. It's much easier to avoid contact with a woman batting her eyelashes at you from across the room and remain safe than it is to approach her and have your entire life ruined for something you did not do, nor did you ever intend to do. So women rage about how men who approach them are creeps and stalkers---and the men who
don't approach them are cowardly mama's boys who aren't mature enough to handle male responsibility. Then those same women go into huddles with their girlfriends and lament and sob about how they can't find any men who want them.
Try reading through a few of these pages. They are eye-opening, to say the least:
Answer (1 of 40): I'm 56. I gave up on wanting to get married when I was around 43. Around 45 I gave up wanting to date. Around 50 I gave up wanting to have sex (other than occasional masturbation). I completely gave up on women in regard to dating or sex. After giving up on women, I have more pe...
I think a healthy fear of women (respect) and consequences of wrong behavior towards women is necessary. One thing I’ve noticed is that men fear...
Answer (1 of 162): Marriage has always been a materialistic scam but now marriage isn’t even worth it because of how bad modern women are. Modern women will expect the man to pay for everything and protect her meanwhile she refuses to cook, clean, take care of herself and slowly over time she wil...
You can find
hundreds of pages like this with a two-second Google search; and if you go to YouTube, you can view
hundreds of videos, from both men and women, expressing their discontent with the societal situation at large right now. It's depressing and disheartening; but I suspect it's just another symptom of an extremely dysfunctional culture that's in the process of imploding.
(shrug)