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Roustalski, try to bear in mind that only the Holy Spirit is able to open your fiance's understanding so that she can see what the Lord desires for her. Show her that you care by being a good example to her and respecting her. She is an adult do not opt to treat her like your child.Roustalski said:My fiance drinks. She likes to have a beer every now and then with dinner or something, and we've had a major discussion about it - which ended up in an argument.
One of the key points that she uses in justifying (other than growing up with it), is that Jesus drank wine and that makes drinking in moderation OK or appropriate. So after reading all of that, I'll have some new information for her, and that's why I'm interested in this thread and those links.
TrustAndObey said:So I'm curious...can we, as Christians, have a little bit of cocaine or heroine as long as we don't get rip roaring stoned?
Roustalski said:My fiance drinks. She likes to have a beer every now and then with dinner or something, and we've had a major discussion about it - which ended up in an argument.
One of the key points that she uses in justifying (other than growing up with it), is that Jesus drank wine and that makes drinking in moderation OK or appropriate. So after reading all of that, I'll have some new information for her, and that's why I'm interested in this thread and those links.
Now this is great - comparing casual drinking to medical treatment. (Which BTW I made allotment for at the very beginning of this thread.) I guess that means I should just start learning to roll my own marijuana joints - I mean if we are going to compare valid medical treaments to casual drinking why not? Based on this presumption you have just made almost every drug known to man a perfectly fine comsumption. Not only that but you have completely undermined every biblical verse that endorses sobriety:BondGirl said:I ask this of the same person (CHRISTian/SDA) that gets a Novocaine shot when getting their wisdom tooth pulled. I ask this of the same person (CHRISTian/SDA) that is having surgery and is given a "sedative" to make them unconscious. I ask this of the same person (CHRISTian/SDA) that has cancer and receives Morphine.
Count it all or count it none.....
JMO
Since when are hymnals our guides to truth?HoneyDew said:Remember this:
"There is a land of corn and wine and all it's joy will soon be mine?" Why did they take ti out of the hymnal?
I'm not going against "all the biblical instances" for I have admitted that there are many times that "wine" or "strong drink" does in fact mean alcoholic beverages. But in nearly every one of those instances we read something bad happening as a result of consuming the alcohol.tall73 said:To Palehorse:
I understand that you are basing the argument on something other than biblical usage, but isn't that the chief issue? Lexical forms, and debates over their usage might be interesting, but Moses clearly uses the term with consistency, as do the other Bible authors.
Also the Bible makes provision for yeast in offerings from the harvest, though grain, not drink offerings are particularly mentioned. So the yeast issue isn't really there either.
I guess I don't see why you would go against the usage of all the biblical instances just to show that it could be something else.
PaleHorse said:Since when are hymnals our guides to truth?
Sorry, I guess I misunderstood the point you were making. My bad.HoneyDew said:I don't think I infered that they were ...
I asked why they took it out because I wondered if somehow there was confusion about the word "wine" and whether some were uncomfortable with the usage. If it has something to do with copyright, then that would be another issue. The question was not asked with malice.
PaleHorse said:Now this is great - comparing casual drinking to medical treatment. (Which BTW I made allotment for at the very beginning of this thread.) I guess that means I should just start learning to roll my own marijuana joints - I mean if we are going to compare valid medical treaments to casual drinking why not? Based on this presumption you have just made almost every drug known to man a perfectly fine comsumption. Not only that but you have completely undermined every biblical verse that endorses sobriety:
So rather than making the blanket statement, BondGirl, "count it all or count it none" wouldn't it be more wise to understand that there a huge difference between medical treatment and casual use? That there is a time and place for EVERYTHING under the sun? Else, what is to keep me from smoking a doobie every day? Or do you endorse that too?
PaleHorse said:I'm not going against "all the biblical instances" for I have admitted that there are many times that "wine" or "strong drink" does in fact mean alcoholic beverages. But in nearly every one of those instances we read something bad happening as a result of consuming the alcohol.
Also, and this is evident for nearly all biblical truths, God seems to have inspired the writers of the Bible to NOT be emphatically clear on every subject - this is evident, if it were not then there wouldn't be all the disagreements between different denominations regarding the truths. We know that God has one truth but I believe He allowed enough "wiggle room" in the scriptures to allow those that are looking for loop-holes to find them. We all find what we are looking for; we either want to follow God's truth and seek it out or He allows us to duck the issues if that is what the reader is wanting to do anyway. It all comes down to one's underlying motive.
tall73 said:It doesn't change the overall Scripture advice about alcohol.
But then, the overall Scripture advice is not a clear prohibition either.
I am not in this to be able to drink. I have no desire whatsoever to drink. But I am in this because it, just like other issues, is a call to biblical fidelity. And I think traditionals need to go just as far as the Bible says, and no further, just as I urge the progressives to on other issues.
BondGirl said:Per your "medicinal" statement - the marijuana is fine. Marijuana has been proven to reverse/assist with Glaucoma. Marijuana has also been shown to ease the pain of MS and Parkinson's patients.
I say "count it all or count it none" - because many of you have used the premise that it is "casual" when someone has a drink of WINE for their "stomach sake". Now - again - when JESUS was on the cross; he didn't even accept vinegar. So if you are going to say no WINE period - even for the "stomach sake" as the scripture translates to (not juice - no matter what you say...) then the same people should not take any form of any pain medication or drug assistance. That is what I mean when I say "all or none".
It sounds like some are saying, "Oh....GOD understands my Pain. He wouldn't mind if I had this Morphine drip since I have cancer. He won't care if I get this shot of Novocain - after all it is a root canal and a wisdom tooth extraction.
...but it is wrong for me (per many of you) to even have a sip of wine when I have an upset stomach? Headache?
Flip-flop the issues if you want....but it stands like this....
It is not okay to drink wine. Even if it is for my "stomach sake".
It is okay to have a shot of Morphine if I am in pain.
It is not okay to have a Marijuana joint for my eyesight.
It is okay to have Novocain when getting a tooth extracted.
It is not okay to have a "shot" e'ry now and then.
It is fine to take an asprin, daily - "for my heart".....
I get it.
PaleHorse said:Now this is great - comparing casual drinking to medical treatment. (Which BTW I made allotment for at the very beginning of this thread.) I guess that means I should just start learning to roll my own marijuana joints - I mean if we are going to compare valid medical treaments to casual drinking why not? Based on this presumption you have just made almost every drug known to man a perfectly fine comsumption. Not only that but you have completely undermined every biblical verse that endorses sobriety:
So rather than making the blanket statement, BondGirl, "count it all or count it none" wouldn't it be more wise to understand that there a huge difference between medical treatment and casual use? That there is a time and place for EVERYTHING under the sun? Else, what is to keep me from smoking a doobie every day? Or do you endorse that too?
I know you aren't looking for wiggle room - I wasn't aiming that towards you. I know your stance on this subject and we are in accord.tall73 said:I am not arguing for the right to use alcohol. I am arguing that you should not try to change biblical words when their usage is overwhelming.
Amen! My point exactly.tall73 said:He is not being inconsistent if he simply says
a. take medicine when you need it.
b. We have medicine to replace alcohol in treating stomach ailments when necessary.
If there are treatments for the stomach that help the problem without clouding the mind as much, then yes, it makes perfect sense to use them.
Now I have met Adventists who take no medicine. If that is their choice, it is their choice. And I can see where they might prefer pain to clouded thinking.
Certainly Jesus, as Savior of the world, had a lot riding on those moments on the cross. His lot was to face the guilt of all our sin, and the separation it brought. And He did it without shrinking back or avoiding the pain. Becuase He was taking that pain on our behalf as our substitute.
I am not sure the same realities are there when someone takes a pain medication for something serious.
I had a member who was kicked by a horse and was suffering greatly. He never uses medicine, even in life threatening infections, etc. with his kids. Because he felt there were natural remedies that would suffice--and they did.
But the doctor said if the pain kept up he was likely to die. So we convinced him to take something.
Right? I don't know. Of course, the only thing that convinced him was Ellen White's comments about a man who's died because he did not take malaria medicine when available, and she said he could have taken it.
We are looking for the ideal in a sinful world. And while medicine should not be a cure for long term ailments where life change would be better, it might be necessary in life saving situations.
And if all I had handy, was liquor at the time, I would have given it. But since we had other options, we used them.
Paul was simply working with the options he had. And it was no endorsement of drinking at other times.
So I agree, it is not casual to use it in that instance. But some do stretch it to mean we can use it for relaxation etc. And some even use it to condone casual drinking.
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