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The Purpose Driven Life

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I see a lot of agreement between you and I on this point.
Life doesn't have a purpose unless on takes religious/spiritual view.
Ah, this explain what YUSUFALI, PICKTHAL and SHAKIR are.

God created us with a need to worship. You're the first person I've heard saying that. It's a good thought and I've been thinking about it since you posted it.

If we are wired for the need to worship how do we know what we are worshipping is what we are suppose to worship? And there lies a weakness. We have one group saying "Our revelation is correct!" We have another saying, "No, our revelation is correct." And we have yet another saying, "All revelations are but a shadow of what is correct."

What standard can be used to determine which revelation is the correct revelation? Of course, this standard would have to be independent of all revelations.
 
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If God created humans with a purpose, then life does not necessarily have a purpose. Creating humans with a purpose (for creating humans) is not necessarily the same giving life a purpose - it could mean the same, but does not necessarily do so.

I suppose a purpose is something to be fullfilled, but God might have fullfilled his purpose by creating humans, which does not entail that human life has a purpose from that point on - this may be left to the humans themselves, maybe. And, yes, each single of us might be created with a special divine purpose that we have to fullfil - spending all our life just figuring out which weird purpose is ours. And, yes God might just have created humans to have the purpose of worshipping God (whatever that happens to mean).

So, again: please state your definition of purpose.

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Edit: I am a programmer, and I "create" program with the purpose of earning money, but that purpose does not transfer to my programs: they don't earn money for me, while running.

Therefore, it is perfectly logical for God to have created humans with a purpose without that purpose being transferred to the lives of humans.

Am I making myself clear now?


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Life needs a purpose if we are to be happy. To have no reason to live is state of depression. God is love. He created us with the ability to love Him back and each other. If we do we fulfill our purpose. For a Loving Being to create another being with the ability to return love is not an indication of imperfection, nor does it show lacking or need. Being loving means one wants someone to love and be loved in return.
 
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elman said:
Life needs a purpose if we are to be happy. To have no reason to live is state of depression. God is love. He created us with the ability to love Him back and each other.
Now we're getting somewhere

I like your conditional: if we are to be happy. There is no innate purpose, purposes are conditional.


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FreezBee said:
Now we're getting somewhere

I like your conditional: if we are to be happy. There is no innate purpose, purposes are conditional.


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I think we exist for the purpose being loving. We are able to chose to be unloving which goes against the purpose for our being here. I think the purpose is innate. The conditional part is if we chose to do what we were created to do.
 
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FreezBee said:
If God created humans with a purpose, then life does not necessarily have a purpose. Creating humans with a purpose (for creating humans) is not necessarily the same giving life a purpose - it could mean the same, but does not necessarily do so.
I still don't follow this thought....Oh!!!! Are you saying "God purposely created humans"? For I'm reading it that the word purpose is as a noun assigned to the word human.
FreezBee said:
I suppose a purpose is something to be fullfilled, but God might have fullfilled his purpose by creating humans,
Ooh. God has a purpose?

  • Where did God get his purpose?
  • Who/what give God his purpose?
  • What is God's purpose?
  • If God was assigned a purpose does that mean there is something greater than God?
  • If God came up with his own purpose, what standard did he use?
FreezBee said:
So, again: please state your definition of purpose.
I don't have a definition. I suppose purpose could mean direction, meaning, duty, task, fate.

FreezBee said:
I am a programmer, and I "create" program with the purpose of earning money, but that purpose does not transfer to my programs: they don't earn money for me, while running.
You better rethink this example.

You create programs for the purpose of earning money. Your programs have a purpose and they must complete the purpose or else you don't get money. Though your purpose for creating the programs is not the same purpose assigned to the programs, your programs have a purpose.

Computer Associates created BrightStor ACRserve to earn money. ACRserve's purpose is to efficiently backup data for storage and recovery. I just purchased 3 copies of the program because of its purpose. I'm not concerned about Computer Associates purpose for creating the program.

Therefore, if it is perfectly logical for God to have purposely created humans, what was/is that purpose?
 
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elman said:
Life needs a purpose if we are to be happy.
So life has a purpose so that we are happy.

elman said:
To have no reason to live is state of depression.
I see no reason for life and I see no reason for my life and I'm happy.

elman said:
God is love.
What does that really mean? What evidence supports that statement.

You anticipated my question. Good!

I want to think on your love comment, but doesn't the state of "want" the result of lack or need? You said that God is love, doesn't that mean that God needs/wants an object to love? God create everything so that He has an object to love?
 
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BelovedSonofRock said:
I still don't follow this thought....Oh!!!! Are you saying "God purposely created humans"? For I'm reading it that the word purpose is as a noun assigned to the word human.
Ooh. God has a purpose?
Yes, I was aware that "created humans with a purpose" could be interpreted as if the purpose was within the humans - a different thing than that God had some purpose for creating humans. Ok, sorry about that!

BelovedSonofRock said:
  • Where did God get his purpose?
  • Who/what give God his purpose?
  • What is God's purpose?
  • If God was assigned a purpose does that mean there is something greater than God?
  • If God came up with his own purpose, what standard did he use?
Now you make me confused I am only looking for a definition of the word "purpose" in order to answer your question, whether you have asked an unaswerable question - believe me

BelovedSonofRock said:
I don't have a definition. I suppose purpose could mean direction, meaning, duty, task, fate.
If you do not have a definition of "purpose", you have asked an unanswerable question, because we don't even know the question you have asked

The way I read you here, we appear to agree, so why do I need to rethink my example? My purpose for creating programs does not transfer to my programs, although the programs must serve some purpose for someone to bother to buy them. Yes, but the point of my example was to give an example of an untransferrable purpose, and you seem to admit that I did - the way I read you. that is.

BelovedSonofRock said:
Therefore, if it is perfectly logical for God to have purposely created humans, what was/is that purpose?
Ask God! Or I might say: it's a private matter of God's

If you want an official theological answer (which I admit that I am not qualified to give), then according to Genesis 2 (I dare suppose that you are familiar with the Bible?) - according to that God created humans to have someone to look after the Garden of Eden - this only moves the problem; why did God create the Garden of Eden?

Anyway, you appear to want to know, whether life needs a purpose. As long as we do not know, what you mean by "purpose", we cannot answer.


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Happiness is not achieved by direct assult. It is always the bank shot or by product of helping or loving others. I question your being able to be happy if you have no reason to live, but you know more about your life than I do. Want in this context is not a state of lack or need, but the natural desire of being loving. God's being loving implies something apart from Him to love. It is not difficult to see the value in love being returned.
 
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FreezBee said:
If you do not have a definition of "purpose", you have asked an unanswerable question, because we don't even know the question you have asked.
Agree, I asked an unanswerable question.

I'm 44 years old. I use to be a Charismatic/Fundamentalist (Yes, I know that they are two diifferent groups but they have so much in common.) I've read straight through the Hebrew Bible 3 times and the Chrisitian Testament 5 times before I graduated from high school (not that that means much). I also spent a large amount of time studying creationism for I saw creationism as a key in accepting the Bible literally and End-Times theology. I was also told by my spiritual leaders that Life has purpose and that I had a purpose.

In college I got involved in an Assembly of God church and Inter-Varsity Christian Fellowship. In IV I was small group leader and eventually I became the chapter president. I also had to take a class on evolution. In that class I discovered that everything I was told about evolution by the creationists was wrong. I was deceived and lied to. And worse, I also discovered that I accepted things without questioning them. I started questioning and in 1985 my faith fell apart.

For 20 years I thought and contemplated about my faith, Christianity and other religions. I moved from being a Fundamentalist to a moderate to a liberal. Finally, I looked at what remained of my Christian faith, carefully examined each piece and discarded it. This July, I came to the conclusion that I'm an atheist.

Though I now consider myself an atheist I still question about things and I even question my atheism. I was listening to a conversation about the development of the universe. A person was talking about an expanding/contracting universe when a theist asked "What is the purpose of that? It seems so pointless." The response was that there is no purpose or point to it. The theist couldn't accept that answer for he said that life has a purpose.

That statement reminded me of The Purpose Driven Life which I read last year and how I remarked that the author assumed that life has a purpose. I then decided that I wanted to hear people's thoughts on this which led me to this site.

It appears that I have asked an unanswerable question. I'm okay with that.
 
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Very interesting lifestory! http://www.skepticalreview.com/ might be something for you.

BTW: I used to be a Satanist, but a few months ago I joined a Satanist forum and asked if being non-Christian implies being anti-Christian - I considered myself the first, but not the last; however a priest had said that a poem I had written was anti-religious, which in the context meant anti-Christian. I did not get an answer on the satanist forum, just some talk defending Christians. Now, if Satanists defends Christians, then what's the difference?

Anyway, I used to be a Christian until the age of 13 - I discovered that I didn't have a third cheek to turn.

Now, I've found out that by definition I'm a Lutheran, hence I have accepted to pose as such.

BelovedSonofRock said:
It appears that I have asked an unanswerable question. I'm okay with that.
So, the purpose for your joining this forum was to get that confirmed? You see: there's no way escaping purposes, they'll drag you along, whether you want it or not


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Your story isn't so very different from mine, except that instead of becoming an atheist, I became the sort of Christian whom fundamentalists consider to be practically an atheist.

I'm not at all convinced that life has a purpose, or ought to, but I don't think that means it's pointless. If that makes any sense. It doesn't need a purpose to make it worthwhile, or at least worthwhile to me. And I guess I have goals and purposes of my own, even to the point of having a certain purpose to my life, but those are just things I've cobbled together and imposed on my life because it pleases me to do it; it doesn't mean anything about any kind of ultimate purpose.

BelovedSonofRock said:
That statement reminded me of The Purpose Driven Life which I read last year and how I remarked that the author assumed that life has a purpose.
I haven't read that, and don't intend to. It looks like something that would either bore me or annoy me. Self-help books are almost entirely a matter of taste, but a self-help book that purports to tell me what God thinks isn't likely to appeal to my taste; I lean more toward the "How To Construct A Fireplace From Old Beer Bottles In Your Spare Time" variety.
 
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FreezBee said:
So, the purpose for your joining this forum was to get that confirmed? You see: there's no way escaping purposes, they'll drag you along, whether you want it or not


However, I don't know if you can parlay a purpose for joining CF into a purpose for life.
 
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Why must life have a purpose? Because anyone can suffer and consider themself "pious" or "religious" or "spiritual", and really anyone can do it and not do anything with their life.

For those who don't give in to mediocrity and despair, we have to live life to overcome and accomplish things.
 
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MidnightBlue said:
However, I don't know if you can parlay a purpose for joining CF into a purpose for life.
True enough But I just couldn't resist the temptation

Anyway, I suppose that a purpose with life needs not be anything that drives you in the sense of a projected goal you need to reach. It could be simply taking care of your family, doing your job, avoiding traffic accidents, all such little, but ever so important things. Maybe that's what BelovedSonofRock has discovered?


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tanya88 said:
I can't picture my life without a purpose.
I suppose most people can't - but for some it may happen that they discover that chasing some purpose makes them loose their life. Occasionally, simple awareness of the beauty of the moment can give you a fuller life. Right now I'm sitting at a public library looking out at the autumn leaves as they color the ground. At the computer in front of me sit a pretty woman, once in a while we look at each other and exchange short smiles. What more can you ask for?


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