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You just walk away? That tack doesn't work here.

No, I don't let children that young cook. It's far too dangerous. And their safety is far too important to risk it. So...moot point whether or not I would eat anything a 4 year old cooked.

Would you dare to get in your car and just drive with no plan as to where you will ultimately end up?
 
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Most of the time I would not dare to disagree with someone who intimidated me. Yet once in a while, I am either braver than usual or I just have the attitude that I don't give a rip. When that is the case, I would dare to disagree.

Would you dare to correct a teacher or professor that is teaching something entirely untrue?
 
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I might offer a different perspective on the subject in an informal setting. But I think it's pretty arrogant to presume to correct a professor on the subject in which they are teaching. Besides...there are usually only differences of opinion, not right and wrong, in every subject that is taught with the exception of Math.

Would you dare to rethink your position if someone made a good argument for their opposing position?
 
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I do this to a fault. I reconsider nearly everything when I hear a good argument. It's part of my peace making wishy-washy too-understanding traits... but it's good to learn how to question AND how to stick to your guns.

Would you dare to challenge a pastor on their teaching if you disagreed with it? (or if it disagreed with the Bible)
 
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I make a conscious effort to both tell them, and show them. But I don't remember anything but them getting on my nerves when I was growing up.

Would you dare to teach 3 year olds instead of sit in a church service? (in case you didn't know...the 3 year old class is the one that is learning to potty train, and really is inconsolable about waiting for Mommy, and does not usually sit quiet or play well with others.)
 
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