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No, Kelly; I've felt that way for some time, I'm sorry to say. However, I do not mean that I haven't made some very nice Christians friends here, though.Kelly said:9, did you recently change your views?
I agree. and will be praying for those who are lost.desi said:I think the atheists come here from a degree of two angles. They are curious and hungry for knowlege and (or) they are looking to stir up trouble.
No offense but I think one of the most dangerous attitude Christians can adopt is that of separating themselves from the world completely in order to stay "safe". As if we are in danger with Christ as our shield and protector! IMO if it was really that dangerous for us to be around non-Christian thoughts/ideas, then God would have pulled us out of the world the minute we got saved.Philip4Jesus said:.That is why I am very sceptical of a forum/ meassage board that calls itself "Christian" when the let athiests participate in discussions.
I myself avoid alot of time in forum/messageboards such as this and when I in in them I am very cautious about where I go , what I read and I careful about the advice I give . I know that there are Christians in here with good intentions....but let me say this.., good intentions don't always end with good results. Becareful of how you word things and don't try to have all the answers...focus more on leading someone to Jesus Christ/God or helping someone to grow as an Christian(in your answers) rather than being RIGHT all of the time!!
awackywabbit said:No offense but I think one of the most dangerous attitude Christians can adopt is that of separating themselves from the world completely in order to stay "safe". As if we are in danger with Christ as our shield and protector! IMO if it was really that dangerous for us to be around non-Christian thoughts/ideas, then God would have pulled us out of the world the minute we got saved.
He doesn't though, because we are called to be IN the world but not of it. Too many Christians stay locked in their holy huddles praying that the world doesn't break in and influence their thoughts, when they should be the ones outside in the world working to influence the non-believers.
Another dangerous attitude is that of ignorance, especially when it comes to defending the faith. I have met way too many Christians who don't know why the believe the things they do, so when someone asks they feel threatened because they themselves do not have a true understanding of their own faith! There are many atheists who understand the Christian belief system better then a lot of Christians.
IMO interaction with non-Christians is one of the most healthiest things a Christian can do. It helps to make your faith real and it causes you to really think about what you believe and why you believe it. It's time to stop hiding behind the doors of the church and venture out into the world in which we have been called. I applaud this forum for opening up its doors and venturing out!
i'd feel overwhelmed if i, a second year english major, walked into a fourth year physics course. how could i know what's true, what's false? how could i defend my views and opinions? i'd be out of my league. (then again, the reverse would be true.)awackywabbit said:No offense but I think one of the most dangerous attitude Christians can adopt is that of separating themselves from the world completely in order to stay "safe". As if we are in danger with Christ as our shield and protector! IMO if it was really that dangerous for us to be around non-Christian thoughts/ideas, then God would have pulled us out of the world the minute we got saved. ...
Kelly said:I have avoided the GA section and am much happier right now as a result. Maybe someday I'll venture out there, but not now.
awackywabbit said:No offense but I think one of the most dangerous attitude Christians can adopt is that of separating themselves from the world completely in order to stay "safe".
No offense taken. I understand that everyone has different experieces and makes different observations throughout life, and therefore there is always going to be somewhat a differnece of opinion on things. All that I was saying( which I think you may have misunderstood) is that people should examine the advice that they receive, just don't accept it as Truth right then and there, especially when it comes to advice on growing as a Christian.
Also I never said or meant to imply that Christians should seperate themselves from the world, just be alert and aware that not everthing you find on the internet should not be accepted as the truth. Of course I am speaking from my experiences and the things which I have seen.
Also I think the question was, Can surfing CF be harmful to new Christians, and I think it could possibly be, because of the simple fact that I think new/young Christians can be easly lead astray. ( of course I am speaking from my personal experiece and from what I have seen.)
Yes, I think so. Basically I want to strengthen mine and my family's faith before I venture out to witness or defend against people who seem here only to argue.Plan 9 said:I do have one question:
Did starting this thread help you find the right balance?
You don't have to answer this question if you think it might hurt anyone's feelings; I was just wondering because I have never started a thread to ask for advice or prayer.
I agree that should come first, especially since you're a family man. A husband who considers and looks out for you is a true gift from God.Kelly said:Yes, I think so. Basically I want to strengthen mine and my family's faith before I venture out to witness or defend against people who seem here only to argue.
We must guard ourselves also as it can damage our OWN walk with Jesus when we get all 'dammed up' with junk. The rivers of Living Water cannot flow through a clogged dam. There are a lot of wicked people coming to CF, yes, I agree. The enemy is sending them in. Let those on the board who are stronger and better able to 'take them on' do so. I notice there are Christians who love to argue, fine, God gifted them with that ability, it's not in me. I must simply live my life as an example, love them and let them decide what to do. {{{hugs}}} (Hey Plan 9! Love ya' Sister!) Kelly, precious Brother, you are loved here, try to ignore the hateful ones. I've had some take some pot shots at me but they bounce off because Jesus is my focus and I rest under His wings! We as Christians should stand together, T-O-G-E-T-H--E-R! If I can help with anything feel free to PM.Phl 4:5 Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord [is] at hand.
Phl 4:6 Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.
Phl 4:7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Phl 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things [are] honest, whatsoever things [are] just, whatsoever things [are] pure, whatsoever things [are] lovely, whatsoever things [are] of good report; if [there be] any virtue, and if [there be] any praise, think on these things.
Agreed. Yet more wisdom from Plan 9It troubles me when Christians do everything they can to belittle Christians. Overall, our atheists have have been kinder to me about our differences.
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