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I have been feeling more depressed again and I think it may be part of a season I have been going through. I have not really been commited going to church. I may go like once every other month. Should I go? I really want to know if it would be any benefit for me. I have some fears that sometimes get in the way of me going. I really want more spiritual bros and sisters too.
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If the Church service itself would trigger you into depression, you might have to abstain for awhile. I stayed away from Church for years but am currently begun to go again, teaching myself new coping methods, wanting to go because serving God is important with a body of believers.
 
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I just left a church because it triggered my depression, and I am feeling really bad about it because I'm told by elders and Pastor at that church that God wouldn't want me to leave the church where He placed me, and I am following my flesh and disobeying God. But I found another church that I absolutely love and the service gives me great peace and even hope, which I desperately need right now, so maybe it's a matter of finding the right church? Because I feel so much peace in my new church, I think that there must be something about finding the right church. I used to feel peace at my old church too, but then things started to change. I'm supposed to stick it out but man I'm so tired of feeling depressed. I just couldn't go anymore. I started to get a lot of anxiety about going…I hope I'm not just a church hopper and that the new church really will continue to give me peace…I'll be praying for you God4alluu
 
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May not be so much a church hopper. Sometimes it just takes some time to see the cracks in that church when the honeymoon time ends. Ie.. The drama and politics and so on. I went through a couple til I found one I felt right with.
 
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