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Since I was a child, I've had intrusive sexual thoughts as a side effect of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. I've accepted Christ Jesus as Lord and Savior in the year of 1997. Ever since then, I've been struggling with these intrusive sexual thoughts that would pressure me to fall into sexual sin. I've been struggling with self gratification because of these lustful intrusive thoughts.

It seems like every time I fall into sexual sin, I would feel overwhelmed with shame, guilt, confusion, depression, oppression, anxiety and discouragement. So many times I felt like I wasn't even saved or really born again because of the ongoing sin. I seem to lack self control and it seems obvious that it has become habitual sin. I've been praying to God for deliverance, healing and restoration because I know it's an abomination to God and God calls us to have pure minds and hearts for without a pure heart, one can not even see God.

Is is possible for a Christian believer in Christ to be enslaved or bound in sexual sin in need of deliverance or is it obvious that the Christan isn't really born again in the first place and doesn't really have the Holy Spirit?

I know it is says walk according the spirit and you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh. -Galatians 5:16-
 

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If you are single, male and an adult you have a normally functioning sex drive. That's not demonic of inherently sinful. How you live with it will depend on how you view what is appropriate for you as a Christian. You will find a variety of views expressed here, which indicates that there is no one Christian set of standards, apart from the basic one of sexual intercourse and marriage going together.

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The scriptures say that we are "being" saved, not that we are just "saved" as a once and done thing. As a man, you will struggle with sexual thoughts probably the rest of your life. I have ADHD and some OCD tendancies, and according to numerous tests, I'm what is called a "sexual addict". I'm married, but I constantly fail in the area of pornography and have an excessive need for daily sexual release. This does not remove my salvation, nor does it condemn me to hell. I just pick up my cross daily, try to make it through one day as a believer, and rejoice when I go to bed having made it a full day without falling into that sin again.

Seek help with the OCD (and the depression that usually goes along with it). It is possible through diet and exercise to break the cycle of OCD, but don't be afraid to try suggested medications if your neurologist or psychologist recommends you take one (but if the drug doesn't work right, don't be afraid to ask to try a different one!).

I have found that my sexual addiction issues hit me hardest when I'm tired, my ADHD is acting up, and I haven't prayed. So the solution for me is to be aware of my tendencies, avoid the internet when I am tired, pray when I am struggling, and above all, forgive myself when I fail.

"for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" Rom. 3:23
 
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