True. But I think we have to try. Just like some teens are always going to choose to have sex before marriage--sometimes repeatedly-- but I think we have to try to tell teens about the consequences of this.
I believe that is true. However, boys seek love, affection too, from the opposite sex, unless they're gay. And hetero males realize that if a girl or girls are screwing other boys and not him, that said girl(s) neither respect nor love him. Pretty simple.
Don't we?
What teen doesn't know that stds, pregnancy, and [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] are all possible consequences of pre marital sex?
One of my favorite authors, Mary Rosera Joyce, talks about how girls will give sex in order to get love. And that boys will give words of love (not actual love) in order to get sex.
I believe that is true. However, boys seek love, affection too, from the opposite sex, unless they're gay. And hetero males realize that if a girl or girls are screwing other boys and not him, that said girl(s) neither respect nor love him. Pretty simple.
No, I don't care if it is normal for girls to cry over rock stars and run to their aid if they their big toes. No more than I'm sure most women care that it's normal for men to fall over each other to lay their coat over a puddle for beautiful alpha females like Halle Berry.
In the end the American assault rifle, semi-auto pistols, and male serial killers bring justice and reconciliation to the prevailing American delusion. It never ceases to amaze me how many American women think a little puppy needs more love and affection than a little boy.
Contrary to all this schizo nonsense where Americans can't decide if American girls are Hillary Clinton's, tough CEO's, or Army Rangers, or instead weak, fragile damsels in distress looking for a peck on the cheek from any and all males. The reality is few American females are that desperate. They are backed by the cult of welfare, abortion, and new views on female promiscuity being pretty darn cool. More than a few of them have the nature of a girl that will join alpha males in hacking some vulnerable boy to death, burying him in a shallow grave, and having sex besides that grave as he breathes his last breaths.
Well, I think there is knowing and then there is knowing. Sometimes we know something vaguely but it hasn't hit home, emotionally/intuitively.
Surely you're not saying that we shouldn't teach kids about the possibility of getting STDs or getting pregnant, are you?
Yes, boys can get very hurt in relationships also--all the more so if the relationship involves sex. Even Time Magazine ran an article about that sometime ago, about how the hookup culture is also breaking the hearts of young men.
I'm curious, what media reports are you thinking of, and how do you believe they differ from what studies say?I would ask people to be respectful, civil, and to ask out-of-the-box questions about this complex issue, rather than only repeating what the media reports.
With the ease boys can access inappropriate content, there has to be emphasis on what's in inappropriate content. Isn't real. This is also effecting girls with the pop videos online. So I would put that in the agenda.What do you think should be taught in the schools as to sex ed?
Agreed.We have been teaching our teens the proper ways to treat each other in a relationship, what is acceptable and what is not. We are human beings that are not to be treated like garbage that is not to be used and tossed to the curb waiting for the next person to come along that seems better.
Young ladies are to be treated with respect and not fondled over like some car or truck that a guy falls in love with while shopping for the next vehicle. Young men are to be treated with the same respect and paid attention to and no ignored ... don't expect them to go shopping with you and expect them to enjoy it. No guy wants to shop through the womens section in a store with his young lady. He has no taste in fashion of dresses or womens clothing.
We have no problem with our teens dating somebody for a date or two and realizing that this person is not for them down the road. If they want to be friends after that, that is up to them. We help them establish ground rules and guidelines so both people realize what is acceptable and what is not. If one crosses the line, then expect the relationship to end.
Exactly: It´s all about your preconceived moral stances on sex.To me that is like saying: if it could be proven that wrong is right, would you accept that wrong is right?
Those aren't semicolons, they are either apostrophes or "single quote" marks.My semi-colons ('dealing')
To me that is like saying: if it could be proven that wrong is right, would you accept that wrong is right?
As far as I can tell, in the context of the post-sexual-revolution culture--where eroticism is so prevalent--comprehensive sex ed does correlate with reduction in teen pregnancy and teen stds.
Some would say that proves that it is morally acceptable to teach comprehensive sex ed, which teaches about sexual options--such as contracepted fornication-- and does not condemn sexual immorality as such.
I don't see this.
I'm curious, what media reports are you thinking of, and how do you believe they differ from what studies say?
With the ease boys can access inappropriate content, there has to be emphasis on what's in inappropriate content. Isn't real. This is also effecting girls with the pop videos online. So I would put that in the agenda.
1. How the body functions sexually. Children are being confused be a prudish element, when their bodies are telling them something else.
2. How to pleasure themselves and their partner.
3. Contraception.
4. STDs.
5. Reproduction.
6. Sex, conception, birth aren't a sin.
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See one of the things we impress on our young people is to save themselves for marriage just as God commands...no sex before marriage, guys or gals as it is something to be enjoyed after marriage vows have been exchanged. Is it getting harder to find people like this, sure...but not impossible. As long as we keep teaching them what God expects there will always be somebody for them to be with by God's standards and by His choosing for them.
It can and does still happen. I dated several people as did my wife, we both knew what we wanted and knew what we would not be willing to sacrifice in another person. We were in on our mid 20s when we met. But when God is in the relationship things can move pretty fast. We were engaged two months later and married eight months after that. No sex was had until after marriage, it would have gone against everything we believe and everything we upheld for so long.
Now we spread the word.
Exactly: It´s all about your preconceived moral stances on sex.
The "real life consequence" arguments are just post-hoc rationalisations and actually a smoke-screen.
No, it is more like asking are you open to the possibility that you might be wrong. Your interpretation is pretty telling, though. It implies you have the correct answer and are simply interested in working backwards to find reasons to keep believing you're correct.
Obviously. The interesting question here is why you won't accept the facts in this situation.
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