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At an anglican church I used to go to the minister had the same kind of problem. A number of years later we were talking and he shared that he had the wrong approach at first. He said when he took the time to understand them and where ther're coming from he was able to change much more than he had ever hoped for! We need to be careful that we aren't trampling the older members or excluding them just because something needs to change. It is a delicate balancing act.chaplainjared said:It is just so frustrating!!!
A very wise preacher once said, "staying where you are is just as bad as moving backwards"....
I suppose every corp is different, but in mine all the "old" people are COMPLETLY AFRAID of change....and it is going to destroy our corp, and those in similar situations.
We have tried to softly implemement new things into our corp, and all we get is OLD people having a cry and complaining that they dont like it, becasue its not the way things have been done in the past!
Dare i say this is completly selfish...
Apparently you haven't been to my old corpsCol said:...what I like about the Savaltion Army is that it is predictable and very consistent....
Andy Broadley said:So this wonderful 'change' has succeeded in splitting the corps in two....sounds productive
Yes, but change for the sake of change can be very damaging.Andy Broadley said:I've said it before & I'll say it again. Change is essential, or we'll die of apathy, but beware of not chucking out the baby with the bathwater.
Warren Peace said:Yes, but change for the sake of change can be very damaging.
Willo said:I would have to say from the area where I live, the rep the Salvos have is that of one of trying to get every cent out of you.
Andy Broadley said:Say's it all, doesn't it ?
If you are refering to my ancient remark, that wasn't intended to apply to your situation... it was a statement about change in general. If changes are made simply because there hasn't been a change in a while, then that is bad... thus the term "change for the sake of change".chaplainjared said:All i can say is "change for the sake of change"????? WHAT THE????
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