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yes for some women when you are pushing, you may lose your bowels as well, but that is cause you are pushing with some of the same muscles. Don't worry about it though, the nurse or doctor will just wisk it away and it won't affect baby.
 
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Most women during early labor will have a "natural enema" meaning that they will have BM's frequently during beginnign labor and clear themselves out. You DON"T need an enema. Women used to be given them, but they only dehydrate you as your body is smart enought to know what to do without one.

If you do go, it's usually a tiny tiny bit that's wiped a way in less than a second and you NEVER know... nor does anyone watching the birth if your Dr/Midwife/Attendent knows what he/she is doing.

And.. no matter how modest you are, you won't care when your baby's head is going through your birth canal!

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i didn't with my son mainly because the stool softners they had been giving me finally kicked in the day I went into labor...there wasn't anything in there to come out... but it felt like I had to go ... I remember telling the nurse "I NEED TO GO TO THE BATHROOM" you need to pee? NO I NEED TO GO TO THE BATHROOM!!! they looked... then hollered for the dr cause it was my son crowning
 
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