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joyouspirit

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I just am curious about this guy. Don't get me wrong, I am happily married. But this guy just puzzles me.

About 2 years ago, I was living with my sister and we were new in the neigborhood so he was our next door neighbor. I will be very brief.

I had a crush on him and he was saying hi from time to time and there was one time I made a fool of myself of waiting for him outside thinking that would be a chance for us to talk but it was so humiliating after that I literally hid from the guy. Now when we do chance upon each other we will say an awkward hi. Never went further, it was always like the first hi between us. Then I found out later on he had a girlfriend. So end of that.

So I got busy with work, and I met my husband. Now here comes the puzzling question.

I still go to my sister's from time to time, and recently, together with my husband, while we were pulling up, this guy came infront of the car to get his mail.

Why is he still so like, "Oh here she is again, oh no". I mean the same gestures like his neck would freeze to avoid to look at me and what duh? For sure, he knows either that I have a boyfriend or husband. I don't know what I did to this guy that I feel I am despicable to him.
 

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tough to say... it could be that since this is a sensitive issue for you that you're reading too much into how he reacts to seeing you. It could be that maybe he had a crush on you and is uncomfortable now that you've obviously moved on. it could be that perhaps he's very full of himself and thinks you're still into him even though you've obviously moved on.

only he really knows whats up.
 
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i am one of the worst (or best depend on you look at it) for over analyzing. so i get why it puzzles you totally.
al though guys are soo confusing i dont know why i even bother to try and understand them

just let him be funny around you. im sure he will figure that you have no intrest in him any more. and it his loss for not wanting you when you were intrested. i wouldnt even give him a second thought. men who act funny are not worth the time.

why do men act so strangly? that one of those questiona i want answered in heaven.
 
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