• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
Status
Not open for further replies.

Libre

Regular Member
Mar 8, 2007
648
75
82
Overlooking Puget Sound
Visit site
✟23,696.00
Faith
Charismatic
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Democrat
Historical attitudes to abortion

Abortion in ancient history

Ancient Greece and Rome

Abortion was accepted in both ancient Rome and Greece.
The Romans and Greeks weren't much concerned with protecting the unborn, and when they did object to abortion it was often because the father didn't want to be deprived of a child that he felt entitled to.
The early philosophers also argued that a foetus did not become formed and begin to live until at least 40 days after conception for a male, and around 80 days for a female. The philosopher Aristotle wrote:
...when couples have children in excess, let abortion be procured before sense and life have begun; what may or may not be lawfully done in these cases depends on the question of life and sensation.​
Aristotle thought that female embryos developed more slowly than male embryos, but made up for lost time by developing more quickly after birth. He appears to have arrived at this idea by seeing the relative development of male and female foetuses that had been miscarried.
Bible times

The Old Testament has several legal passages that refer to abortion, but they deal with it in terms of loss of property and not sanctity of life.
The status of the foetus as property in the Bible is shown by the law that if a person causes a miscarriage they must pay a fine to the husband of the woman, but if they also cause the woman to die then they are liable to be killed.
The New Testament doesn't explicitly deal with abortion.



http://www.bbc.co.uk/ethics/abortion/legal/history_print.html
 
Upvote 0

Eleveness

Junior Member
Jun 26, 2008
62
7
United States
✟22,719.00
Faith
Atheist
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Libertarian
The Romans and Greeks weren't much concerned with protecting the unborn, and when they did object to abortion it was often because the father didn't want to be deprived of a child that he felt entitled to.

Ahh, that opens up an entirely new dimension in the abortion debate: Does the father get to have any say in whether the fetus is aborted?

I am of the opinion that no, the father does not get a say, because it's not his body that's carrying the fetus. Specifically, the father (or anyone else, for that matter) does not have the right to confiscate a portion of the pregnant woman's blood for the purpose of sustaining the life of the fetus, because it isn't his blood. That blood is the property of the pregnant woman, and only she has the right to decide how the oxygen and nutrients in it are spent.

Now, consider the following hypothetical scenario:
1. It is possible for a fetus to develop inside the body of a man
2. It is possible to transplant a fetus from a woman's body to a man's
3. The father of a fetus doesn't want it aborted, but the woman does
4. The father is willing to pay for the medical procedure to transplant the fetus from the mother's body to his
5. There are no potential complications from the procedure

In this bizarre situation, I could see that the mother would be obligated to transplant the fetus from her body to his, in lieu of abortion. In this situation, outright abortion would be wrong, since there is a willing "host", and it is possible to transplant the fetus to the new host.

If there are any of you not creeped out by the idea, what are your thoughts?

(Let me add that since I am a man, one would expect me to defend a father's say in whether or not a fetus is aborted. I have no choice but to respect a woman's rights over her own body, and so I agree that I do not have the right to confiscate a woman's uterus and blood without her consent.)
 
Upvote 0

Eleveness

Junior Member
Jun 26, 2008
62
7
United States
✟22,719.00
Faith
Atheist
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Libertarian
I should also add: Since the father does not get a say, he should not be obligated to pay child support if he does not wish for the fetus to be born, but the woman does. If we force an unwilling father to pay child support, the mother can use this to blackmail the father. She can (legitimately) say (for example), "If you don't buy me a new car, then I'll give birth to this child, and then you'll have to pay child support (which would probably be more than the cost of the car). On the other hand, if you buy me a car, I'll abort the fetus." Does that sound right to you?

As I see it, there are two ways to prevent this blackmail:
1. Let the father have a say in whether the fetus is aborted
2. Abolish (compulsory) child support

I believe option 2 is better, since the father shouldn't have a say in what goes on inside a woman's body. But I think either option is better than the blackmail.
 
Upvote 0

Libre

Regular Member
Mar 8, 2007
648
75
82
Overlooking Puget Sound
Visit site
✟23,696.00
Faith
Charismatic
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Democrat
You have just made my point. We don't want to return to repressive, male-dominated views of this. We don't want to force a woman to carry or not carry a child. The law concentrates on the point of woman's choice. Child support and all extraneous factors are another matter and the courts will deal with them. But the decisions are for the living, and if the child is born, it is to be supported. That is the way the legal cookie crumbles.
 
Upvote 0

Eleveness

Junior Member
Jun 26, 2008
62
7
United States
✟22,719.00
Faith
Atheist
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Libertarian
You have just made my point.

Oh yes, I'm not (necessarily) disagreeing with you; I'm just adding to the discussion.

We don't want to return to repressive, male-dominated views of this. We don't want to force a woman to carry or not carry a child.
If only it were that simple....

But is it right to force a person to care for a child if that person doesn't wish to do so, and that person has never indicated his or her desire to care for the child? Contrary to the opinions of many people on this board (not necessarily you), I do not believe that the mere act of sex implies willingness to care for a child.

I believe that there should be a way for a man to formally state his unwillingness to care for a child. I am thinking of something like a legal document--call it a "parental responsibility waiver"--that a man can sign and then, if he impregnates a woman after signing the waiver, he is free of any responsibility of caring for the child; specifically, he is not required to pay child support. A woman can search for and locate this waiver (if it exists), and if she finds that her boyfriend has signed such a waiver, she can take that fact into account when she is considering having sex with him.

Of course, I doubt most people would be so responsible, even if the possibility existed. But I do wish to say that the possibility of paying child support is a major reason why I do not wish to have sex. The institution of child support cripples my ability to express my love for a woman. That's why I take issue with it. And (getting back on the topic of abortion), I also take issue with it since I don't get to have a say in whether a woman has an abortion.
 
Upvote 0

Libre

Regular Member
Mar 8, 2007
648
75
82
Overlooking Puget Sound
Visit site
✟23,696.00
Faith
Charismatic
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Democrat
You can't be serious! It's men like you the laws are written to protect children from. If you are the father, you pay. No waivers. A waiver would encourage abortions in many cases. You are swimming against the tide on this one. Won't ever happen. Grandma was right. You can't call back the feathers once they leave the pillow. But you can pick them out of your hair.
 
Upvote 0

JediMobius

The Guy with the Face
Jan 12, 2006
1,592
112
41
Beer City, Michigan
✟25,618.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others

I'm still conflicted whether an abortion should be legal in cases where the unborn child would cause deep physical or psychological harm to the mother, but that alone should not justify the whole of abortion as some pro-choice proponents have argued.

There was recently a case in Indiana where the rapist was given visitation rights. Laws govern custody and visitation are a state matter. There are states where visitation rights would never be be granted to a rapist.

That's horrible, I can't believe any court in America today would allow that. If that's true, such an injustice should be corrected and never allowed again.


In the case of rape, I would agree that the victim should have that choice, but not the women who use it as a post-conception method of birth control.
 
Upvote 0

JediMobius

The Guy with the Face
Jan 12, 2006
1,592
112
41
Beer City, Michigan
✟25,618.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others
A woman's choices comes before that of a blob with eight cells because she has a life already, and her needs must be met.

Seriously, eight cells. That's not a fetus. A fetus is a baby after three months. An embryo is after it attaches to the wall. Not a child, cells.

They're all stages in the development of a unique human being, even those 8 cells (even when they're only 2) have DNA different from the mother's. How can you say when the egg becomes an individual and when it isn't?
 
Upvote 0

JediMobius

The Guy with the Face
Jan 12, 2006
1,592
112
41
Beer City, Michigan
✟25,618.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others

Both of these hypothetical scenarios are examples of a life that is in peril from beyond the individual's control. Choosing not to rescue an individual is very different from choosing to keep the individual from ever living. It is a lack of action to withhold blood or organs which could save a life, but a deliberate action to abort a life.
 
Upvote 0

JediMobius

The Guy with the Face
Jan 12, 2006
1,592
112
41
Beer City, Michigan
✟25,618.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others

Conversely, if an individual's right to life and other rights are denied during pregnancy, the precedent could be used to justify violating the rights of a child, and from there an adult. If a legislative body were to use Anti-abortion legislation to justify oppression, that would prove the corruption of the system, not call into question the validity of the abortion law. It's the same with warrant-less wire-tapping. The reason of national security is not invalid, but the method which takes away constitutional rights for the sake of security is corrupt. Therefor the legal implications of banning abortion are no reason to allow abortion to continue.
 
Upvote 0

JediMobius

The Guy with the Face
Jan 12, 2006
1,592
112
41
Beer City, Michigan
✟25,618.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others

It may not be a drawn-up legal contract, but by consenting to sex, a woman thereby agrees to risk pregnancy and the responsibilities thereof. If this were not so, any man or woman could deny food and clothing to their own child indefinitely on the basis of personal property rights. The rights given us are only valid so long as exercising these rights does not infringe upon the rights of another.
 
Upvote 0

JediMobius

The Guy with the Face
Jan 12, 2006
1,592
112
41
Beer City, Michigan
✟25,618.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others

How is such a thing decided? Is it human once it becomes a fetus at 9 weeks? Is it human once brain activity begins in the 6th week as an embryo? Is it human at conception? The specific DNA of the [to be] individual is in place and is growing of its own accord, though it must do so within the womb of its mother who provides the nutrients needed. The zygote which forms from the fertilized egg will become a human being barring complications. To prevent even a miniscule being from becoming a child is taking away its right to life. Would a mortgage company be allowed to prevent a man from owning a home? The down payment has already been made. Even if evidence of further payment cannot be seen, the mortgage company doesn't get to take away the house until payments have been missed and the contract is breached.
 
Upvote 0
B

brightmorningstar

Guest
To icarus62,

The circumstances in which a woman gets pregnant are entirely beside the point
They are crucial. If a woman and a man have unprotected sexual intercourse conception is likely to occur, if they haven’t planned that its they who have made the mistake and they who need to face the consequences. .


No that’s a pro-choice decision, the reality is life has already started, as stated so well by TheLowlyTortoise, ‘To prevent even a miniscule being from becoming a child is taking away its right to life.’

The question is at which stage do you propose taking away the life? As far as I am concerned it doesn’t matter so much to me at what stage you propose, though I guess later rather than earlier, say 70 years old.
 
Reactions: JediMobius
Upvote 0

JediMobius

The Guy with the Face
Jan 12, 2006
1,592
112
41
Beer City, Michigan
✟25,618.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others

"If we prohibit abortion, we may as well prohibit sex altogether" - I don't get that, how does that follow from the previous assertions?

There's nothing more quintessentially human than true love. If we prohibit abortion, we cripple a person's capacity to express feelings of love to his or her partner. Does that sound right?

Refusing to care for the child that results from having sex contradicts that there was love in the first place.
 
Upvote 0

JediMobius

The Guy with the Face
Jan 12, 2006
1,592
112
41
Beer City, Michigan
✟25,618.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others

Firstly, this has little to do with the points of the thread. Secondly, not one verse or passage is cited from where the bible supposedly deals with abortion as "loss of property and not sanctity of life."
 
Upvote 0
B

brightmorningstar

Guest
To Eleveness,
There's nothing more quintessentially human than true love. If we prohibit abortion, we cripple a person's capacity to express feelings of love to his or her partner. Does that sound right?
What you have written doesn’t sound right. Love isn’t sex, the two are different, sex may be a part of a loving relationship, but I love chocolate but that doesn’t mean I have sex with it.

Furthermore I love many people but it doesn’t cause conception unless I have sex with them. How about a rewording of your post ?
There's nothing more quintessentially human than true sex. If we prohibit abortion, we cripple a person's capacity to express feelings of sex to his or her partner. Does that sound right?
Nope.
 
Upvote 0

JediMobius

The Guy with the Face
Jan 12, 2006
1,592
112
41
Beer City, Michigan
✟25,618.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others

I should also add: Since the father does not get a say, he should not be obligated to pay child support if he does not wish for the fetus to be born, but the woman does.
Are you serious?

I'm not trying to insult you or anything, but this is ridiculous. If, say, the father raped the mother in the first place, and the father doesn't want her to have the child, but the mother decides to let the innocent child live, by your reasoning the father would not be held financially responsible for the child.

Even if the sex was completely consensual, the woman wants the child, but the man wants her to get an abortion, why would the man get out of child support? Where's the accountability for the man's actions? If the man and woman went in 50/50 on a sure thing at a horse race, the man doesn't get to take his half back just because something unexpected happened and the horse didn't win.

Furthermore, where's the responsibility for anyone's actions? The vast majority of the time, unwanted pregnancy is the result of carelessness and was always a risk in the first place. The idea that a man or woman is not responsible for carelessness doesn't hold up in any other legal preceding I know of.

This society has begun taking away repercussions, which only opens the door to more and more carelessness until all personal accountability is gone. If we don't have any responsibility for our actions, how can we at the same time uphold our rights and keep our freedom?
 
Upvote 0
Oct 29, 2006
2,361
193
✟25,867.00
Faith
Baptist
Marital Status
Married

My problem with using the 'even for rape?' argument for legal abortion is that it doesn't actually deal with the difficulties of surviving a rape experience. It is an argument thrown out purely to make anti-abortionists look heartless, which is just not the case. It is said in way that encourages a stigma of shame and defeat over the rape survivor, instead of empowering them through real support and counselling. I actually find it quite insensitive to use such an arguement - while conceding that it is an issue that needs serious discussion.


Onto the my body my choice argument, I have difficulties with this because the baby/fetus has a body too - it just doesn't get a choice apparently. It didn't choose to be conceived, it doesn't get a say in whether it lives or dies.
 
Reactions: JediMobius
Upvote 0
Oct 29, 2006
2,361
193
✟25,867.00
Faith
Baptist
Marital Status
Married
Tropical Wilds, I really feel for your situation and I'm so sorry that it is so hard for you and your husband.

But your post was exactly the defeatist and shame inspiring rhetoric I was talking about. It's hardly encouraging, helpful or healing.

Your example of a murder is just not the same, no one is being asked to live with a rapist, you're being asked to at least consider holding off on a finite decision until such a time that with proper support and counselling a desicion can be made with a sound mind. Until then, the woman is being asked to live with an innocent fetus that is partly her too.

Although I think it is a terrible blight on our society that such support is very rare.
 
Upvote 0

fivepointTULIP

Drawn by Irresistible Grace
Sep 18, 2008
120
10
USA
✟22,786.00
Faith
Calvinist
Marital Status
In Relationship
Politics
US-Libertarian
TW, for what it is worth, I am entirely with you on this one. I lived for almost a year under the threat of the scenario posed by this thread. (Although I have not personally struggled with compounding it with infertility, I can imagine the pain through your words and it makes my heart ache).
I realised when I was actually faced with the horrible reality, that I was willing to get "abortificient" birth control, I was willing to take herbal tonics to induce menstruation/miscarriage, and last ditch I was willing to go to a clinic.
Before having to face that scenario, I would have described myself as die-hard "pro-life". It's easy to do from a distance, or when the personal traumas and tragedies are far from your own life.
 
Upvote 0
Status
Not open for further replies.