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Good afternoon, this is day two in my jorney here at Christian Forums, and I already feel very welcome, and I am glad that I found this site .  So I would like to say thank you for the kind words already.

Enough blabeling, here is what I am trying to find guidance on and the more prayer and opinions would be very helpful;  At the present time I am a chaplain assistant in the Navy, and I have been for about 2 years, I like it, even though it's more paper work than spiritual work, and I was hoping that it would be vise versa.  Well about a year ago, and after a very long period of prayer and thinking (almost another year), it finally came to me like a brick wall to change my "job" to be a little more active in protecting our great country, and that was to be part of the security forces(military police).  Well now with the worldly conditions being unstable, I am being faced with a challenge once again.  With this change of jobs, I am going to be sent to the Mid-East region of the globe, which is fine by me, the only thing is that the wife and children will be staying here in the States.  Now, don't get me wrong, I joined knowing full well that if I need to sacrifice my life to save a fellow Sailor, Marine, Soldier or Airman, I would without hesistation.  But at least 1-2 years away from family is going to be hard.  My wife on the other hand would like to see me let my enlistment end and we could just move back home.  I am having a tough time sorting through all of the emotions running through me right now and would like some help/suggestion/oppinions.

Thank you (in advance)
 

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Sometimes our desires get confused with God's caling. Before you leave your family for an extended seperation be very very very sure it is God calling. I am NOT saying it isn't. But I definitely am saying if there is any doubt, DON'T leave your famiy that long. If it is God's will and calling He will make it CLEAR and provide the way.
 
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I agree with Gerry, make sure before you leave. If you want my opinion, you should stay with your family. Your children and wife need you more than the military needs you to be a policeman. Just my opinion, I know its great to want to defend your country, and I am proud of you and thank you for doing it. I just don't like to see children without their parents. God Bless, I will pray for you.
 
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Sailor, your devotion to duty is admirable. If you truly feel God calling you, then you must follow. However, pray hard about it. Your family is second only to God, and should weigh heavily in your decision.

If you feel that security is your calling, finish your time in the Navy, then go into law enforcement. Most agencies are desperate for good officers, and military experience is a huge boost to your resume. Then you could help defend your country on a more personal level...your own neighborhood.

Just $.02 coming from an ex-squid now working in law enforcement....

I'll be praying for ya, brother.
 
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I would like to say thank you for all those who are praying for me about this. My heart is telling me that for the better of my family to go ahead and go overseas, and it's only for one year, with 30 days of leave(vacation) after 6 months. We have a strong relationship so I know that it will workout in the long run.
Again thank you for your prayer.

Have a blessed day.
 
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