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Please I need help...made an oath in my head.

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When we sin, whether it's breaking a vow or any other kind of wrongdoing there are steps we can take to find forgiveness.

The first step is to admit our guilt before GOD. The Bible says in 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, HE is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." This promise of forgiveness and cleansing extends to all regardless of their shortcoming.

Once we admit our guilt, we then seek forgiveness from God. THE LORD ALMIGHTY invites us to come to HIM, promising in Isaiah that HE WILL ABUNDANTLY PARDON.

Isaiah 55:7, "Let the wicked forsake their ways and the unrighteous their thoughts. Let them turn to the Lord, and he will have mercy on them, and to our God, for he will freely pardon." This verse reminds us that GOD is a GOD of mercy and forgiveness, and that HE is always willing to pardon those who come to HIM with a repentant heart.

CHRIST JESUS also invites us to come to Him, saying, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). This promise of rest and comfort is a reminder that in JESUS we find both peace and forgiveness.

When we confess our sins and come to GOD with a humble heart, HE is faithful to forgive us and restore us. So, there is absolutely no need to break up with your fiancée.
 
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Harley . . . you ask >
How does this apply…?
Below are things I offered. And with them I will offer how I believe they can apply >
Hold yourself to what God wants.
Instead of being very concerned about what you have promised, be interested in what God has promised and guaranteed.

In case He does want you to keep a vow or promise, trust Him to guide you in how to do it right. Whatever God desires you to do, He wants you to do it in sharing with Him; therefore, it is not God's will for you to get yourself isolated with worrying about thoughts in your head; but submit to God in His peace and enjoy how He makes us creative.

Do not take anything into your own hands, then. And do not boast what you will do. But trust God through His Son Jesus to do so better than we can think and hope or boast and promise.

Do not boast inferiority!!

Trust Him to do what He wants with you - - -
Instead of thinking and guaranteeing what you can do, trust God and discover all He pleases to do with us.

If thoughts are calling all attention to you, this is a trick. Pay attention to God who is worthy of our attention.

"casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you." (1 Peter 5:7)
OCD can be a way of caring and being anxious about things without first trusting God about them. So, this scripture can help us to know God our Father cares about us and therefore wants us to trust Him about everything. And therefore, do not get tricked by OCD into handling things without God's peace and guiding.
 
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I totally agree. I would just come back on something that was said. Of course you can make an oath or a vow to God. But you have to accomplish it! In your case it was a moment of weakness. You didn t mean it And didn’t understand the consequences. Repent, read God s promises as quoted to our friend s message. And keep positive. When we re with God nothing is against us. god is our shield, our fortress, our refuge. Read Psalms.
 
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