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WELS has very specific doctrinal commitments. It's also quite a ways away from Pentecostalism in many respects. In short, I'm not surprised that the two of you agreeing beyond the Christian essentials that almost any two Christians would agree upon has turned out to be harder than you thought at first it would. However, some of what you have reported sounds a little bit questionable to me, so my advice would be--first of all--to be sure what WELS position on all of these things actually is.

You could speak with a pastor if you could find one, but you might also send a "Conversation" (personal message) to PreachersWife2004 here on CF who is married to one and might be able to help.