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Excuse me? What the heck are you talking about?
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All I've done so far is address the matter of jmverville's remark, that preventing is not a matter of controlling, and your implication that dictating is not a matter of controlling. The fact that abortion is the subject of the thread is not relevant to the substance of my remarks.
Before I ask this question, allow me to make my position on abortion clear: It should be entirely up to the mother whether or not to have an abortion, except in the third trimester, at which point I'm not entirely sure.
Now, here's my question: Why do certain groups of people feel it is in their power to control the lives of others? Why do they feel they have the right to decide what a woman can and cannot do to her own body?
It's a rather unfortunate issue because I don't think that we can afford to be wrong in this definition either way. If we call humans nonhuman, we deny them basic rights. If we call nonhuman things human, then we can't define human rights to their full extent.
because they don't understand that enforcing morality doesn't truely save anyone (i.e. you might save a life but you're not saving a soul)... at least from a Christian perspective.Before I ask this question, allow me to make my position on abortion clear: It should be entirely up to the mother whether or not to have an abortion, except in the third trimester, at which point I'm not entirely sure.
Now, here's my question: Why do certain groups of people feel it is in their power to control the lives of others? Why do they feel they have the right to decide what a woman can and cannot do to her own body?
Not intended to flame or troll or anything. Just trying to understand.
I mean, the duty of government is theoretically to protect the people, but a loophole exists where you can be declared not a person and therefore not worthy of protection.
I don't think the "personhood" argument is sufficient to justify a legal ban or restriction on abortion--hear me out. Even if, for the sake of argument, we momentarily accept the premise that a fetus should be accorded the legal rights of a person, there are still other issues at stake.
The key issue with pregnancy is that the fetus is dependent on the woman's body for survival. As a result of the fetus's presence, the woman experiences significant physiological changes as the pregnancy progresses. Making abortion illegal is tantamount to saying that the government has the right to force a person to relinquish control over their own body for the sake of another person's life.
Let me offer a hypothetical example. Let's say there's an adult human (thus, there is absolutely no question over his "personhood") who is suffering from a life-threatening illness or injury, and requires a transfusion of blood matching his very rare blood type. Better yet, let's say instead he requires a bone marrow transplant, since compatible donors for bone marrow are significantly more rare. In the context of the hypothetical, only one person can be found who is a compatible match for the patient (and is near enough to donate in time to save his life, etc.), but for whatever reason, he does not wish to donate.
Does the government have the right to step in and say that the compatible person must undergo a medical procedure to donate blood or bone marrow, against his will, in order to save another person's life? One might argue that the person should willingly donate, from a moral perspective, but that isn't the issue. The issue is whether the government has the right to override that person's choice. What if the patient instead needed a kidney? Does the government still have the right to intervene?
Given that the US government cannot currently harvest your organs for donation even after you're dead unless you voluntarily sign up to be an organ donor, I'm guessing that the current legal answer to that is "no."
Pregnancy isn't a matter of trivial "inconvenience." Nine months of gestation, followed by labor and childbirth, are significant matters. Furthermore, pregnancy can permanently alter a woman's body chemistry. Leaving aside entirely the socioeconomic factors that might play into a woman's decision to have an abortion, it seems to me that the physiological concerns alone are sufficient to leave the choice firmly in the woman's hands.
Whether or not his dictate is unreasonable doesn't chang the fact that it is still a dictate: telling someone else what they can or cannot do. And it doesn't matter if his reasons are pure or impure. Dictating is still an attempt to control the actions of another. And it's doing much more than "defending the idea that fetuses are individuals who should have the same rights as any other human." It is controling the actions of others. So let's not dance around the issue. To prevent someone from doing something means you are controlling them.
Only insomuch as it's easier to kill the fetus than it is to simply cut off necessary nourishment for it. Unless you're against the former, but fine with the latter, the distinction is largely aesthetic, rather than meaningful.In order for this to be analogous to abortion, the person who does not wish to donate the marrow must kill the person who needs the transplant.
In order for this to be analogous to abortion, the person who does not wish to donate the marrow must kill the person who needs the transplant.
What did the mother say to her daughter? Did she curse her birth? Are mothers allowed to do that?I'd like to agree wholeheartedly with TooCurious' position, and add that having babies is definitely still dangerous. My mother's best friend died a few years ago due to complications with her daughter's birth - over eighteen years after the event. After her daughter was born, complications from the birth caused her to suffer chronic kidney infections which eventually led to her death when her daughter was a late teenager.
As DeathMagus said, unless you know of a way for the woman to deny the zygote/fetus her bodily resources (including the occupancy of her womb) without killing it, that is not a meaningful distinction.
Further, in the case of my bone marrow hypothetical, the only way for the patient to survive his fatal illness is if the potential donor chooses to donate. When he does not, he makes a choice that means the patient will die, regardless of whether he's the one putting a bullet to him or not.
The question remains: Can (or should) the government have the authority to force one person to contribute his or her bodily resources (against his/her will) in order to sustain the life of another person?
It's a very meaningful distinction, as I've already explained.
MikeMcK said:There is a difference between someone dying as a result of care withheld, and a mother and doctor making a conscious decision to aggresively kill the baby.
MikeMcK said:In the case of killing a baby, yes.
MikeMcK said:The woman made the choice to have sex. The consequences are now hers to bear, not the baby's.
It's a very meaningful distinction, as I've already explained.
Abortion isn't about what a woman does with her own body, but about what she wants to do to a [fetus]'s body.
In order for this to be analogous to abortion, the person who does not wish to donate the marrow must kill the person who needs the transplant.
Is there a practical difference, or is it just easier to live with one's self by rationalizing that one isn't at fault because "nature" killed the fetus instead of you? At any rate, this whole line of thought is pointless unless you're fine with depriving a fetus of necessary nutrition, etc. If a doctor could somehow simply snip the umbilical cord and remove the fetus, would you be alright with that? If not, then you're constructing an elaborate strawman.MikeMcK said:There is a difference between someone dying as a result of care withheld, and a mother and doctor making a conscious decision to aggresively kill the baby.
MikeMcK said:In the case of killing a [fetus], yes.
The woman made the choice to have sex. The consequences are now hers to bear, not the [fetus]'s.
What did the mother say to her daughter? Did she curse her birth? Are mothers allowed to do that?
Must have missed it:
Is there a practical differenone's self by rationalizing that one isn't at fault because "nature" killed the fetus instead of you?
I don't think you phrased this in a way that makes sense.
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