- Oct 7, 2002
- 358
- 3
- Country
- Australia
- Gender
- Male
- Faith
- Non-Denom
- Marital Status
- Married
Ok well basically although I'm twenty I ever since I broke up a year-long relationship a few weeks ago I've been thinking like I did back in high school - where I keep looking at girls thinking "Maybe... maybe..."
It's not something I'm happy about - I want to be able to think of other young ladies as people, not potential spouses or girlfriends. Because of this I find it hard to talk to girls because I get the wrong idea going through my mind. I've always struggled with allowing myself to get led on (in my mind, not from the other party) and it's made it hard for me.
I would love to be with the lady God's going to let me marry, but until I'm with her I don't want to think of ANYONE about having potential. It's frustrating me a lot.
If I could get this under control it would be a lot easier for me to comfortably socialise with females, as well as helping me to show more respect for them in my mind. This is something I really, really want to fix.
I know it's probably a natural thing, but I don't think that too many other blokes have this problem to the same level I do. I don't know if I'm exaggerating it to myself, either way I would still appreciate some advice and prayer.
Thanks
It's not something I'm happy about - I want to be able to think of other young ladies as people, not potential spouses or girlfriends. Because of this I find it hard to talk to girls because I get the wrong idea going through my mind. I've always struggled with allowing myself to get led on (in my mind, not from the other party) and it's made it hard for me.
I would love to be with the lady God's going to let me marry, but until I'm with her I don't want to think of ANYONE about having potential. It's frustrating me a lot.
If I could get this under control it would be a lot easier for me to comfortably socialise with females, as well as helping me to show more respect for them in my mind. This is something I really, really want to fix.
I know it's probably a natural thing, but I don't think that too many other blokes have this problem to the same level I do. I don't know if I'm exaggerating it to myself, either way I would still appreciate some advice and prayer.
Thanks