So the mother moved the kids. She said that if we want them more than one weekend a month (which she will only meet us halfway and from saturday to sunday instead of friday to sunday) we have to drive the full 3 1/2 hrs one way to get the kids. We're looking at $50 for meeting her halfway one weekend and $100 in gas the other weekend. She is married but her husband wont drive the other weekend. She is still demanding the full child support on top of making us incur most of the transportation costs.
The divorce decree states nothing about her not being able to move. However - it does state that my husband is to have bi weekly custody from Friday 6 pm to Sunday 6 pm.
We live in Georgia and she resides in Florida now.
This is beyond ridiculous.
She is more than apparently trying to make her new husband the kids "dad" and making it as inconvenient and expensive on us as possible to see the kids as little as she can get by with.
Gahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
So when my husband asked what her address is so we could get the kids - she of course never responded. This was to be my husband's custody weekend.... but without an address - I'm not driving all over Destin FL not knowing where they live.
I am beyond frustrated with this woman. We have tried to talk to her as politely as possible, asking her to reconsider the move or to transfer custody of the children to us and simply switch the visitation schedule. But NOOOOO she wants to be a flipping control freak - regardless of what anyone else may be affected by her choices.
Since I can't deal out an old fashioned butt whooping - we're meeting with a lawyer Monday to find out what our options are.
My husband has also come across some things on his credit history that he is having to research - but he said the possibility of his ex using his name for a loan wouldn't be unlike her character.