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I gave my life to Christ on 11/02/03. I am currently living with my bf. I realize that this is not God's will. I asked my bf to move out on Tuesday. He should move out around the end of Feb. We are not sleeping in the same room. We have struggled for 3 years with the same issues porn, lack of trust and anger. I need a friend to help guide me. I am originally from England and have no family here. I want to do what is right and feel a little lost and lonely. My bf and I will be going to Christian counselling when he moves out. I'm confused and heartbroken. I have never been in a chat room and don't have the slightest idea of how to use it!
 
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Hey JIC!!!

Welcome to CF!!!

There's some forums round here that should be able to help... I'll have to see what I can find for ya, or maybe somebody can give you an idea.

Anyhow... the Chat Box... well, it's kindda easy, once you get used to it.

See, when you're there, you type your message in the text box, then click the "Chat/Refresh" button to send it. Then you gotta click the Chat/refresh button a lot to keep up with stuff. And if you want to get the chat box to full screen, click the "PopUp!" button. Make it easier to see everything. And.... that's about it.


You're gonna have other quesstions come up... just ask!!!

Blessings!!

JR
 
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God bless you.
I know how you feel: I just split up with my girlfriend yesterday, partly because I didn't feel it was right. It is agony. Congratulations on having the strength to ask him to move out. It really does hurt.
Hope you're managing to work out the chatroom easily enough: it takes a while, but he basics are simple enough.

WanderingMagi
 
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Welcome, jlc124! I can definitely atest to the fact that porn can be a strong hinderance to your relationship to the Lord, but then, with God anything is possible. I commend you on taking the right steps to resolve this situation and trying to do what is right. If your b/f is a Christian then he shouldn't have a problem with moving out until when and if you both decide to get married. Do you have a church close by that you can go to? It would be helpful to surround yourself with good Christian friends. There might be some in your area from this board as well. May the peace and strength of God be with you.
 
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