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Need advice about what to do

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I have been in a relationship a long time with the present partner but he is not a Christian and that is something which affects the relationship. I would much prefer it if he was a Christian and I have spoken to him a lot about Christianity but he isn't interested and this is affecting our relationship. However, at this age, I can't afford to waste more time with putting off having children. He says that he would accept it if I became pregnant and that is something, at least because I don't want to be childless, even though I have tried to accept the idea. I am always depressed and feeling as though I need to do something about it as soon as possible. I am prepared to spend quite a lot of time with the child, so that isn't really a problem. I'd possibly need to work part-time but I've got my family to ask for support if I absolutely need it. However, they are trying to put me off having children but they don't realise how depressed and bitter it's making me feel. They already have children and I see how much this means to them.
 
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