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I'm curious about everyone's response to this study:
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/soin.12154
 
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That's quite possible that the non-binary thing is a "fad"...some people who claim the status certain make it look that way in certain instances, but even then, I think the same cause for concern still stands with regards to young people getting surgical and hormonal interventions.

Whether it's a fad or it's real, the end result is the same in that it's a person potentially doing something to themselves at age 16-17, that they could end up wishing they hadn't done once they're 25.
 
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Citations please

Citation?

Not sure exactly which parts you're looking for citations on...but if you're referring to Erica Anderson's research and the polling that went into it regarding a large percentage of people who identify as opposite sex early on, and then fall into a nonbinary role later on (as well as the desistence rate data -- including the part where they originally, incorrectly, thought it was 90%, but then lowered it to 60%) are covered here



Suicide ideation rate and suicide rate are two different things.

Suicidal ideation refers to people having thoughts of (or considering) suicide. Suicide rate refers to people who actually do it.

As noted, the suicide ideation rate is reduced by over 40% (which is a good thing) post transition, but the suicide ideation rate (baseline) pre-transition is already really high.

Suicidality Among Transgender Youth: Elucidating the Role of Interpersonal Risk Factors - PubMed
82% of transgender individuals have considered killing themselves and 40% have attempted suicide


44% reduction in the odds of past-year suicidal ideation.


So, if you had 10,000 transgender people.
8,200 would have suicidal ideation (on average)

If you allowed all of them to transition as they see fit, that 44% reduction (from 8,200) would mean that 4,600 (of the 10,000) would still being having suicidal ideation.



I would also note, your long-term follow-up study example was from Sweden, a country that has more rigorous standards before they allow someone to embark on such an endeavor.

Like with anything else, more time spent upstream and more probing questions and consultation with experts (in order to diligently weed out people who aren't good candidates for it) leads to less regret later when it comes to major life altering decisions.

My primary issue with this isn't that there are people who want to transition via surgery or hormonal supplementation, my issue is that due diligence isn't being done, and people are proposing these sorts of things for age ranges where we know impulse control is lacking. I don't want a 16 year old to do this sort of thing for the same reason I don't want a 16 year old to have a gun, get married, or opt for a vasectomy.

I often use the Tattoo analogy. 78% of people who get a tattoo between 18-20 regret the decision later.

If there was a better screening process and better consultation before getting one done to make the sure the person "really" wanted to do it, or they made people wait until age 25 before getting the tattoo, the "regret rate" would be much lower.
 
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between 1989 and 2003 there were 3 suicides among the subjects that had completed transition. If you go looking you can find a number of interviews Cecilia Dhejne the author of the study gave where she discusses how some are quote mining and misusing her work ....in pretty much the fashion you are here.
 
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Makes you wonder why a worldly platform has to censor it, because Youtube is known for censoring things it doesn't agree with, I mean "lies"
You tube has a long hisotry of removing content that violates their terms of service agreement
 
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Did you read this before you posted? I ask that with all sincerity because it isn't about Anderson's research but rather why the numbers you are quoting are not trustworthy...
Suicide ideation rate and suicide rate are two different things.

Suicidal ideation refers to people having thoughts of (or considering) suicide. Suicide rate refers to people who actually do it.
Yes i do know the difference
the same long term study found that individuals who has transitioned were actually at a lower risk for suicidal ideation and attempts. that that same 1989 t0 2003 time period 29 transitioned individuals had ideations/attempts while the control group of the general population had 44 incidents

and why does the study you link think the cause of this is?
you might want to read the full study before pulling numbers out of thin air.
I would also note, your long-term follow-up study example was from Sweden, a country that has more rigorous standards before they allow someone to embark on such an endeavor.
Evidence?
i see a lot of assumptions here
 
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Lol, how can quoting the entire conclusion be quote mining. It appears if your understanding of the numbers are correct then THEY are the ones that greatly exaggerated. If that's the case then I find their total study extremely untrustworthy.
 
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I want you to actually refence your claim.

Oh I know. I'm asking why. @Gene2memE is probably interested in the facts. I can't recall you ever caring about the evidence at all....for example, remember when you told that story about the 17yo girl who came across the trans woman in the locker room and you told everyone that trans woman had "bottom surgery" years ago, without evidence, and contrary to the article in the OP?

Seems to be little point in providing you any evidence at all. It doesn't influence your opinions in any noticeable way from where I'm sitting.
 
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Did you read this before you posted? I ask that with all sincerity because it isn't about Anderson's research but rather why the numbers you are quoting are not trustworthy...
If the way it's worded is what you take issue with, then I'll rephrase it as "interpretation of the survey", better?


Your reply made it sounds like you were conflating the two. I made a post about the suicide ideation rate, and your rebuttal was talking about the suicide rate.

and why does the study you link think the cause of this is?
There's a combination of factors at play...some of them internal, some of them environmental.
you might want to read the full study before pulling numbers out of thin air.
Which number did I pull out of thin air? The numbers I had highlighted in yellow in the post you were replying to were copied and pasted directly from the studies
82% of transgender individuals have considered killing themselves and 40% have attempted suicide
44% reduction in the odds of past-year suicidal ideation.

Evidence?
Evidence of Sweden having more rigorous standards with regards to transitioning?

I believe this was the study you linked earlier, but this link covers some of it, the process (during the time period this link covers) mentions that it involved the person receiving a dysphoria diagnosis and being referred to one of six specialized teams in the country, and if approved by one of those teams, the person applies for permission from a federal regulatory board.

And they've opted to go even stricter recently
i see a lot of assumptions here
What, that more consultation and counseling time with regards to big decisions (in order to weed out people who may not be good candidates) will reduce the amount of "buyer's remorse" later?

You can call that an "assumption", but it's one (based on common-sense caution) that most people have based on everything we know about human behavior and observing other big decisions people make. And the younger (and more impulsive) a person is, the more thoughtful consideration is warranted.

Take the stats on marriage for example:
 
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I want you to actually refence your claim.

Desperate poster....why don't you come to your senses?

You've been out refencing your claims...even though they weren't actually your claims.....

But desperate poster? It must be lonely waiting for evidence....not that it doesn't exist....but there's no point in showing it now. Desperate poster......your habit of asking everyone to qualify even the slightest claim, has been well documented...it happens so often now, the results are predictable....

*prior statements to be sung in the tune of "Desperado" by The Eagles*

@SilverBear you may not remember this, but I recall your original position on this issue....

1. It's not happening. It's been wildly overblown and every individual case is treated with the utmost care.

2. Anyone who refuses to concede to every trans activist demand is a bigot/transphobe..

3. You claim work at a gender clinic and have firsthand knowledge of what happens there.

Has any of these positions changed?
 
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Lol, how can quoting the entire conclusion be quote mining.

Because of the way you are using that summary. everything is lumped together and you are trying to pick out a single piece to justify your personal prejudice but the study itself is not supporting your position
It appears if your understanding of the numbers are correct then THEY are the ones that greatly exaggerated. If that's the case then I find their total study extremely untrustworthy.
So you are rejecting one of the largest and most comprehensive studies available because you don[t like the results
 
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Desperate poster....why don't you come to your senses?
oh I know you won['t ever back up your APA claim, because you can't
I know you won't do it but i will ask anyhow. Please cite where i actually said any of this
 
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Because of the way you are using that summary. everything is lumped together and you are trying to pick out a single piece to justify your personal prejudice but the study itself is not supporting your position

I'm quoting the ACTUAL CONCLUSION of the study. They are not my words or my conclusion. It's the conclusion those that did the study actually made.
It is YOU that are drawing different conclusions than the authors did. Are you claiming that the authors of the study came to the wrong conclusion?
 
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The studies I've read regarding the use of puberty blockers and HRT in "patients" as young as 12 (not FDA approved as treatment either...think about that. They gave emergency approval to a vaccine of unknown efficacy that's never been tried before in less than a year, but they won't approve these treatments for trans youth). And there's an outrageous irony in the discussion of these treatments that's obvious to anyone with half a brain....

They're well aware that unless you've already undergone puberty....and you decide to end HRT in a relatively short time, there will be damage to your reproductive ability .....permanently. To say that these treatments sterilize children isn't much of an exaggeration.

What is suggested is for the Dr to walk through options for fertility like cryogenic freezing of sperm or eggs....and doing this multiple times for any child younger than 17. Why? Because they don't believe a child that young can fully understand the sacrifice they are making at that age. They're simply too young to fully grasp what an infertile adulthood looks like....

An that's wild to me....because they're only in this position because someone decided they were capable of choosing to be a man or woman contrary to the very biological reality they were born into.....at 12 years old.

It's hard for me to explain how that happens without first stating that trans activists have injected their ideological and political beliefs directly into a community that is being corrupted by political and corporate interests.
oh I know you won['t ever back up your APA claim, because you can't

If @Gene2memE pops back into the thread and expresses an interest in the citation, I'll gladly PM it to him.

There's no reason at all to give it to you....I don't think you even disagree with the claim.


I know you won't do it but i will ask anyhow. Please cite where i actually said any of this

Post #166. You asked me to refence my claim lol.
 
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oh I know you won['t ever back up your APA claim, because you can't

I know you won't do it but i will ask anyhow. Please cite where i actually said any of this
All right let's do this. We've been doing this a while with you and know a lot of what you've said. But let's do this now to confirm.

1. Do you believe it's not happening and is widely over blown? Do you believe all these cases are handled in the utmost care?

2. Do you believe that anyone who refuses to give in to trans activists demands is a transphobe or a bigot?

3. You work at a gender clinic and have first hand knowledge of what happens there?

Let's see how you respond.
 
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Goserelin FDA approval

Leuprolide FDA approval

Histrelin FDA approval

Triptorelin FDA approval



Try again
 
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