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LOL! Is it any wonder I'm confused?
I didn't mind discussing the rules in the wiki honestly. I just didn't like people adding and deleting like their opinion was better than someone else's.
I didn't mean to state we CAN'T delete something. I meant it had to be the consensus BEFORE we delete something.
We need a cyber lawyer.
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I have a question for one of the mods too. According to this CF rule...
What happens when someone claiming to be SDA but has refused to don the icon tries to vote in our forum? How do you mod's determine then who is eligable to vote in this SDA forum? Do they all of a sudden get to use the SDA icon, just for voting privileges and then refuse it again after the voting is over? Just curios--thank you.
Tall, that isn't necessarily what I was witnessing though.
It wasn't working and ideas were being deleted without discussion, and editing without discussion. It was anarchy.
We could just start one thread in here and discuss each rule one by one before adding it.
Not everybody was willing to go all over this site to get to the wiki and it is a little confusing.
All I know is it wasn't working and we weren't getting the consensus on most things before it was posted on the wiki.
The wiki is a bit hard to find. Perhaps we need a link with a sticky.
But the wiki has one advantage, and that is that everyone can see the current state of things easily, and it also provides for discussion.
If the process is breaking down then we need to remind each other to stick with the process and continue to refine.
Is it so wrong to ask for a consensus BEFORE posting a suggested rule in the wiki?
No, but some people are not doing what they expect others to do. Several things have been added today without a consensus. I just mentioned a couple of them in the wiki. So it's all right for some people to edit things without getting a consensus first but not others?
Why, because YOU said so?
Tall, this has to be a vote and it has to be what the consensus of this forum wants.
I'm not trying to disagree with you, I just refuse to be bullied about this (even if it's a polite bully).
I have asked several times to be shown their set of rules. I don't see it.If there is a set of rules we need to follow them.
I would say the mods are confusing us. If they had rules why didn't they post them? Otherwise why are they doing it differently than in the other sections?If there isn't, we need to vote on how to do it.
We're confusing the mods and most people in here are just as confused as I am.
Sounds great. But it is happening so we need to find a way to deal with it . The only real way to deal with it is to get folks to the table and ask them to be reasonable and work through the issues one by one. That is the whole point of a wiki.I will NOT agree to someone deleting posts and adding wikis without popular opinion.
It is insanity.
so where did I say otherwise? My point is that if deletions do occur you don't throw out the whole process. That is why there is a history to start with so that you can always see all the ideas ever posted in the wiki.I haven't deleted a single suggestion. I won't do it because my opinion is not any better than someone else's.
I don't care what others have done and I think it should be a clean slate right here, but we need to make this fair for everyone.
EVERY opinion should be considered and if the consensus says no, then it's no. If the end result is something I don't feel I am comfortable with, I'm free to leave and I will.
I know you're not talking about me because I haven't deleted ANYTHING.
The term wiki was not invented here in the last few days.
Ah, but I'd bet most people aren't really aware of how it works. I wasn't till about 6 months ago and here no one told us (if they did I didn't see it, or remember it!) where the wiki was to the rules for this forum.
A link has been posted in several threads here, but I would suggest starting a new thread to direct people to the wiki and requesting that it be made a sticky.
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