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Misconceptions about Calvinism

mp6789

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What are the most common misconceptions you hear about Calvinism? I started my own blog to journal some thoughts and was curious to see what my fellow brothers of the faith thought as well. Thank you for your time.

-Michael

If interested, here is the blog. I would appreciate feedback for my growth, to God's glory. written or forgotten. blogspot. com

no spaces, but the site wouldn't allow me to post it otherwise.
 

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3. [FONT=&quot]Perseverance of the Saints doesn’t mean we have “Fire Insurance from Hell”.[/FONT][FONT=&quot] I was discussing this point with one of my close friends when he posed this question, “Do you believe you can be a Christian and still live whatever kind of life you want?” No. Scripture says once God begins a work in us He will see it through. [/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]“And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”(Philippians 1:6)[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]“I cry out to God Most High, to God who fulfills his purpose for me.” (Psalm 57:2)[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]“The Lord will fulfill his purpose for me; your steadfast love, O Lord, endures forever.” (Psalm 138:8)[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]1 Cor. 10:31[/FONT][FONT=&quot] tells us to “do all thing to the glory of God”. Living a life to God’s glory isn’t one marked by accepting and living in sin; rather, we are to war against, and put sin to death with the help of the Holy Spirit. (Romans 8:13) [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]God didn’t save us to live stagnant lives. He saves us, grows us, and perseveres us until the day we die. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]4. [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Calvinism doesn’t make God cruel and unloving.[/FONT][FONT=&quot] Many people I have spoken with consider that Calvinism makes God impersonal, unloving, and downright cruel. Their interpretation is that if God takes our choice out of salvation then it can’t be real genuine love. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Calvinist’s believe in what is called “The Sovereignty of God”. Sovereignty, in its simplest form means, complete control. In reference to salvation, we believe God has complete control in when and whom He saves. People are so fast to attribute a sunrise to God but cannot give all glory to God in their salvation. As I mentioned before, there is nothing in us that seeks God. (Romans 3:11). We are spiritually dead. (Ephesians 2:1) How can someone who is dead be made alive? Not on their own accord. It is God who saves us from death. Literally, God makes us alive.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Where in that last verse does it state we have a say in salvation? We don’t. However, we do have a response. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot] “If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”(Romans 10:9)[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]God makes himself known to us, and this overwhelmingly produces a response of confession that Jesus is Lord! [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]I’m getting a little off track but the point I’m trying to make is: [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]God’s judgment is perfect, and ours is flawed. We would choose sin 10 out of 10 times, and the most loving thing God could do, and did, was to take that choice out of our hands.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]5. [/FONT][FONT=&quot]We don’t know everything[/FONT][FONT=&quot]. I wanted to end on a repentant note, and with one of the most common responses I’ve had when sharing Calvinism. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Over the past several years, as I’ve been developing a deeper understanding of Calvinism, I've found myself talking about my new beliefs out of pride. I would debate rather than discuss, be harsh rather than loving, and be “right” rather than informative. I had many opportunities to share God’s love and glory in the gospel, but instead I would debate theologies and doctrines to my glory. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]There’s nothing wrong with doctrines and theologies, as they lead to knowing and understanding Christ better, but when your study is in end in itself, then you have lost more than you have gained. I sincerely apologizes to anyone I might have hurt or wrongfully offended, and ask that you would extend grace to forgive me as well. [/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]My desire and prayer is to always make more of God by making less of myself, and to glorify Him by enjoying Him forever.[/FONT]
 
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A very common misconception is about predestination. Most don't understand the difference between God knowing something and God commanding something, imo.

They don't understand that predestination and free will are not mutually exclusive.

Also, they tend to think that because of predestination, we don't bother to evangelize.

I don't speak from hyper Calvinism though...
 
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Where is the link?

Anyway, resolved the predestination thing for myself a long time ago. We were predestined to be conformed to the likeness of Christ, in the power of the Holy Spirit according to the will of the Father. There was never a plan B.

Grace and peace,
Mark
 
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Well Paul said he was confident, based on who he was directing his letter to. It was a prayer and address of exhortation, NOT a statement of fact.

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Exactly, WE are to DO these things. They aren't done for us. He saves us, gives us His power to grow, and WE persevere as we walk in Christ. ALL based on our obedience which means we have the choice to NOT obey, or it would just be called programmed, which some cults unfortunately are able to do. True Christianity is not a cult. Romans 11:22 shows our responsibility in Christ...Consider therefore the kindness and sternness of God: sternness to those who fell, but kindness to you, provided that you continue in his kindness. Otherwise, you also will be cut off. Pretty clear as it relates to our actions, don't you think?


[FONT=&quot]Calvinist’s believe in what is called “The Sovereignty of God”. Sovereignty, in its simplest form means, complete control. In reference to salvation, we believe God has complete control in when and whom He saves.[/FONT]

The Greek word used for sovereign in the NT is δεσπότης / despotēs , and has only ONE connotation, which is Master/Lord. It has two synonyms. One relates only to a slave and denotes absolute ownership and uncontrolled power. The second has a wider meaning, applicable to the various ranks and relations of life and not suggestive of either property or of absolutism. We are the later.



We glory in God's creation. We glory in our salvation which is what Romans 8:30 shows He did for us at salvation. Romans 3:11 is Paul quoting from the OT and without Christ we are in this position. God draws us to Jesus. God instigates our desire to fill that God shaped whole in our heart. He made us for Himself, so we may have a sinful nature, but we are NOT totally depraved as Calvin would have you believe. We are NOT TULIPS. Although I find it interesting that Calvin believed in Irresistible Grace for those that are saved, but NOT for those that are NOT saved. Does God's Grace ONLY become irresistible AFTER we get saved? God saves us based on our choice, our acceptance of the good news. Our confession of Christ. That is how we are saved. Romans 10:9
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First of all in Eph 2, Paul does speak of how these Ephesians arrived at their current status in Christ. They ARE believers and he explains to them their status. Take a look at verse 10... For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
If we DON'T have CHOICE, then it isn't real love. 1 Cor 13:4...it is not self-seeking.

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Well said! Kudos.
 
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