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Michal DESPISED David for dancing before the Lord

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2S 6:

It was a celebration occasion. People were in a party mood.

16 As the ark of the Lord came into the city of David, Michal the daughter of Saul looked out of the window and saw King David leaping and dancing before the Lord, and she despised him in her heart.
It's bad sign when a wife despises her husband. Something was wrong in their relationship. Michal was the party pooper. Why?

She didn't think her husband the king behaved properly with royal dignity. She failed to appreciate the spiritual connection between David and God. David humbled himself before God and rejoiced in the Lord in dancing with all his might. She couldn't relate to that. She had trouble relating to God as her sovereign and relating to David as her husband.

21 And David said to Michal, “It was before the Lord, who chose me above your father
David vented his anger to her and her father. He wasn't being nice to his wife, and the two had a communication problem.

and above all his house, to appoint me as prince over Israel, the people of the Lord—and I will celebrate before the Lord. 22 I will make myself yet more contemptible than this, and I will be abased in your eyes.
Now he was being sarcastic and threatening:

But by the female servants of whom you have spoken, by them I shall be held in honor.” 23 And Michal the daughter of Saul had no child to the day of her death.
Michal says that David is a fool for dancing. Is she correct?

No, she was wrong. David did it to show his humility and joy before the Lord. She couldn't relate to that. This episode showed how different their personalities were and their marriage was on the rocks.
 

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It's quite well possible that although Michal was returned to David after her marriage with Paltiel (1 Samuel 25:44); they never had a proper marriage relationship from that point on because that would be a violation of Torah (Deuteronomy 24:1-4):
David resuming physical marriage with Michal would be an abomination before YHWH the text implies. I don't think the fact that Michal was taken from David and forced to marry Paltiel changes the basic principle presented.

Her return likely was a political/PR move.
 
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