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OK. That takes care of that small possibility--that you might not have taken sufficient account of the "other side of the coin." But you have, so that's that. And I wouldn't want to say that this closes the door, even though I do have to stand by my earlier answer that there's just no ambivalence among Anglicans of any variety on this issue. On the meaning of Baptism, there's some, but on baptizing infants and youngsters, no.

Yes, this strikes me as just terrible luck, but sometimes it happens to people who live in rural areas, and we've heard it before on this forum.

Oh, I did find a non-denominational church about 20 miles away. I talked with the pastor yesterday, and he told me they were full-gospel/Pentecostal. I don't think that's an option.
We seem to have wrapped this up, but you have to have some church.

Would the UMC be acceptable? It's about the only one that I could see as coming even close to meeting your requirements, out of all the ones I think are available to you. Their position on baptism may be--it is with other Methodist churches--that it's whatever the parents want. So that at least admits of the validity of your POV on this matter.
 
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Let me speak from different places on the UMC. When I was considering ministry there, they had just changed their "official" statement/doctrine on baptism, contained in the document called "By Water and the Spirit: A United Methodist Understanding of Baptism". I could not accept it. I also found that I could not accept that the local church could not own its own property, that the denomination owned it. And financial giving to the denomination was not voluntary but the amounts apportioned to the local churches by the denomination. So, baptism and polity were stumbling blocks to me. Also, the church was pro-choice on abortion, and I believe the only thing keeping them from going the way of TEC, PCUSA, and the ELCA was the predominance of southern USA delegates and African delegates to General Conference.

Now not being a minister there, I would still have much the same concerns. So, I don't know, but I don't think the UMC would be a good fit for me.

I've visited churches from almost every denomination within 50 miles, and some further, over many years. I've even talked to Catholic priests a couple of times. In the last couple of months, I've also corresponded with Orthodox priests.

It seems at this point in my life, it must not be meant for me to go to a church.

I know no church is perfect, and I am certainly not looking for that or expecting that. And I don't mean to be nitpicking. I'd just like to find a place that I fit and belong.
 
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I appreciate this summary, and I would have many of the same concerns or objections as you do, but I thought this (UMC) was probably the best of a poor collection.

To have no church home at all would be a shame (as you don't need us to tell you), but if none will work for you, then I would not recommend compromising your conscience. The last suggestion might be to find the best of a poor lot and attend but decline to hold membership in it.

Some people feel that this is a way to be honest with their own consciences but not to exclude themselves totally from corporate worship.
 
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I expect you are right, and this is probably what I should and will do.

Thank you very much for all your responses.
 
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I expect you are right, and this is probably what I should and will do.

Thank you very much for all your responses.

Best wishes for an acceptable outcome. It's been enjoyable "talking" with you!
 
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How can you have a Savior without His substitutionary sacrifice? So either we have total hypocrisy or total apostasy. As I said before, this gentleman should find a good Eastern religion and then he won't even have to think about this.

Your view is very narrow. Your view of the atonement is also unknown until Calvin. You need to go and study the first thousand years of the church.
 
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The early Christians had the Bible, and they did not see penal substitution there. No one saw it there until Calvin and the Magisterial Reformers. It is false doctrine.
 
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The early Christians had the Bible, and they did not see penal substitution there. No one saw it there until Calvin and the Magisterial Reformers. It is false doctrine.
Forget about Calvin and anyone else. Can you show us from the Bible what you mean by "no penal substitution there"? Chapter and verse please.
 
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What would be the point? You believe it's there, and I don't.
One can reject what the Bible teaches, since multitudes do exactly that.

But if your belief is based on wishful thinking rather than what is revealed in the Bible, then that is another matter. It is impossible to to separate Christ from His substitutionary sacrifice for the sins of humanity. Therefore you are unable to find any Scripture to support your position.

Now you have two choices: believe the Bible and reject your own fantasies, or disbelieve the Bible and face the consequences of unbelief.
 
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You are accusatory, judgmental, and do not reflect the spirit of Jesus.

There is plenty of scripture to support Ransom/Christus Victor/Recapitulation views of the atonement. I suggest you do some study and dispel your ignorance on the subject. That includes study of what the Bible actually says instead of what Calvin claimed it says.

It is you who believes in fantasies, as your penal substitution view was invented by Calvin and is thus a johnny-come-lately doctrine unknown and untaught for 1500 years. The early Christians did not see such a monstrous, abhorrent doctrine in scripture.
 
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In that case Woodland Hills Church Minnesota. Listen or watch online for free. Against abortion, divorce, and gay marriage. Christos victor view of the atonement. Focus on following Jesus and living a sacrificial Christ like life

Yes, a wonderful church.Thank you!

But I really feel the need to find a church I can physically attend.
 
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A different place every week (I moved about a month and a half ago).
I tried Presbyterians: (Kinda stuffy, only old people, message didn't feel relavent (kinda fluffy no conviction).
Tried Lutherans: (Lots of good work helping the poor, mostly old people in the service and no day care for my daughter, pretty good sermons. very ritualistic. Went twice)
Tried "non denominational Family Church": (Lots of people my age and lots of activities for children. Modern, good music, fairly good preaching.... but they are very standard evangelical, the focus is on "saving souls" rather then helping the pool. Substitution focused on a lot and mentioned often. Women can't preach or be leaders
. (went twice)
Narareen: (Lots of kids and programs for kids, the preacher was a guest speaker, but I know the usual guy's very big on Fox News. Focus on personal individual piety. Went once)
I called about 5 other places also. These guys seemed the best based on their web page and talking on the phone.
Not sure what to do.
 
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