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Longest gap without intercourse

sdmsanjose

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Will be 5 weeks on November 14, 2012

She did not have a baby but is visiting our daughter in Cleveland Ohio, 1500 miles away.

WOW It has only been 10 days and this is harder than I thought!

I have been frantically looking for good deals on the airfare to Cleveland!!!
All these cold showers are getting moss on my feet!
 
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PreachersWife2004

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Three and a half months - started the 5th month of my high risk pregnancy since they put me on bed rest and absolutely FORBADE us to have sex.

Hubby got a lot of "attention" during that time though...
 
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If you just got married what the heck you doing here?!

Unfortunately because we're so young and poor college students, our marriage was nothing but a quick trip to City Hall and going out to dinner with our families afterwards and today is just an average working and schooling day for us I'm currently on the bus on the way to my first class.
 
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I'm sorry! I know the feeling though...my wife and I were in a very similar situation...
 
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Totally understand. For us it was a quick trip to City Hall then back to the homeless shelter. (Our families believed in arranged marriages and when we fell in love with each other instead of who they wanted they kicked us out.)
 
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A little over a month. We practice NFP and sometimes a cycle doesn't allow it.

Total sidestep here...We had three kids right in a row...boom boom boom. I was never much aware of my cycle, but now I've noticed I know the very day I ovulate! If we were practicing NFP, I could pretty much narrow it down to within 2 days where we wouldn't have sex.

But now we're pretty well done with kids unless God decides to make hubby's fishies super swimmers. So my cycle really means zilch to me!!

/derail
 
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mkgal1

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Congratulations.


Don't spend too much time talking to us or your husband may start to miss you.

I don't think *he* has a husband.

Congratulations, GNJ!
 
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A week or two- my job basically takes up my life and he wants to usually just wind down by playing video games or watching TV after work (he works later than me too). We enjoy eating dinner together and then by 9pm we're in bed and I need to get to sleep- he will actually read to me (we're finishing up Dracula tonight) until I'm ready to pass out.

Because we have this routine of where we are together, I don't think either of us feels the pressure to have sex. I'll let him know when I'm in the mood though and usually reading gets skipped He's more of a morning person and we're up pretty early (5:50am) so that doesn't really leave any time for extra activities.
 
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