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I went through a real freaky stage one time when I called my husband Mulder and I asked him to call me Scully...(from the XFiles)..poor thing reluctantly did..I would say Hey Mulder???and he would go ..um..yeah/?and I woud say NO say "yeah Scully" and he woud go O.K "yeah Scully"???
Dallas
What?! Is this a joke lol. Is this a practical joke thread...
I went through a real freaky stage one time when I called my husband Mulder and I asked him to call me Scully...(from the XFiles)..poor thing reluctantly did..I would say Hey Mulder???and he would go ..um..yeah/?and I woud say NO say "yeah Scully" and he woud go O.K "yeah Scully"???
Dallas
Nope...I seriously was obsessed with that show the Xfiles..and I thought it woud be "cool' for me to call my husbnd Mulder and for him to call me Scully...I ALWAYS wanted them to CONFESS thier love for each other and get married and have babies! LOL!!!
Dallas
I'm actually jealous of you then, I thought I was the biggest fan of the X-files! hehe that is pretty cute.
I like to call him sweedum-puddin' pops.lolz!
Okay, seriously though, I do believe that men need to feel like their wife's "hero."
Just like most women need that emotional intimate connection, most men need to know that they're respected and admired by their wives.
And most men really do desire to be the "knight in shining armor' to their wives.
At least, this is what Remi tells me.
So I make sure every so often to just say something like: "I just want you to know how admired you are, and how much I respect you."
It's not much, it's not mushy, or even romantic.
But it really fills that need for him, and he acts like I just gave him the best compliment in the world.
Just my take.
Peace,
-Niffer
Knight, but we take care of each other really.So, this was brought up in another thread and was off-topic so I decided to make a thread so as not to derail the other. There was a comment made about a wife not needed a knight in shinning armor or a hero because she didn't see herself as a damsel in distress, but as a capable woman.
I see myself as a capable woman too. I go to school, I do my work without any help from my husband, I discipline myself to get my work done, I get any paperwork for financial aid filled out, paid for and turned in, etc. However, I fondly refer to my husband as "my superhero", "my knight in shinning armor", my Prince Charming". And he calls me "his beautiful Princess". I'm a romantic and I do, to an extent, believe in real life happily ever afters.
So, is your husband your "Knight"? Or is he just your husband? Do you think seeing your husband as a hero or knight would make you not-capable?
If you're a guy reading this, does your wife see you as extra special like her hero or Prince? Or just a regular guy she loves a lot?
It has been my experience that a great many women I have known, want their men to be their knight and protector. I think that men quite naturally and have historically also taken that role. I know I will protect my wife until I leave this world if I am able.Well the fair maidens that the knights were out protecting did care for them when they came back so the fact that one may be or be seen as a knight doesn't mean that the care isn't two way.
It has been my experience that a great many women I have known, want their men to be their knight and protector. I think that men quite naturally and have historically also taken that role. I know I will protect my wife until I leave this world if I am able.
My wife wanted a knight in shining armor but all I could afford was boiled leather.
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