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So can people at least agree that this is what resigning means, or at least upon demand if not this moment, and that some of you think this is what we should do?
...issue them, but with her signature on them as the authorizing party. Anyone should be able to see how that wasn't much of a solution.I think that resigning, in the private sphere, is something of last resort. I think it comes up slightly earlier in the calculus for a public employee. But Kim Davis had options available that would have allowed her to not resign and not issue licenses while also complying with the court. She only had to allow deputies to issue licenses.
I consider that to be a very unpersuasive argument in this case. When she ran, she did not intend--nor do most officeholders--to uphold some law that didn't exist at the time. If it becomes law in the USA in, say, 2018, that you can marry your dog, are we seriously going to say to every County Clerk that "this is what you agreed to?" I don't think so.But she CHOSE to run for the very office that would require her to issue a marriage license to anyone who meets the legal requirements for the office.
And this is not even remotely true.It should have been obvious to her that same-sex marriage was going to be made legal during her 4 year term in office.
False, her signature would not have been on it. This was discussed earlier in the thread. HTH. HAND....issue them, but with her signature on them as the authorizing party. Anyone should be able to see how that wasn't much of a solution.
False, her signature would not have been on it. This was discussed earlier in the thread. HTH. HAND.
It amounts to the same thing in her mind, and a reasonable person should be able to understand that. Actual signature or not, it's issued by her office under her name and authorization, just like some certificates most of us have received at one time or another that bear reproductions of signatures--the paper money we all use, for example.The TV reports are wrong if they said her signature had to appear. Her name would, as it is the "office of Kim Davis".
When you put it in that dichotomy, of course.But refusing to play ball and then resigning is about all we can do short of holding a stick of dynamite in our hands and threatening to blow ourselves up in front of the place of business...shrug.
When you put it in that dichotomy, of course.
But what I see is you (guys) condemning Davis when she did neither. She chose to not resign, and NOT hold a stick of dynamite. And while you can certainly complain of grandstanding over Davis's release, I simply don't see how you can prior to that. As I understand matters, it was not she that dragged in the media and sought attention, but the homosexuals. It seems like you are saying that she sought out the attention and held a stick of dynamite, and the only reason we have any conflict here is that I see both ideas to be untrue.
If she was NOT grandstanding (and the salient point is her arrest, not release), then her resistance was of the peaceful Christian sort, that did not seek to show off, but to affirm truth that is not her personal opinion, but something we KNOW to be true. That is what I see, and that is what you guys deny, and I, frankly, do not see the basis for your claims of grandstanding and seeking attention. I see an eager media owned by people that want to railroad this through that literally want to crucify her for taking that approach of peaceful and passive resistance.
I think that resigning, in the private sphere, is something of last resort. I think it comes up slightly earlier in the calculus for a public employee. But Kim Davis had options available that would have allowed her to not resign and not issue licenses while also complying with the court. She only had to allow deputies to issue licenses.
Personally, I wouldn't have run for County Clerk in the first place. It was blatantly obvious by the time she decided to run that same-sex marriage was going to be legalized.
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