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Well I'm having a situation where there is a girl that sexually flirts with me. I have a girlfriend and she has a boyfriend, but she still keeps on going. She usually does stuff to show off her body and I know that its not God's will for me to lust after her. I just need to know what to do and some scriputure on this? Why do women/men do this?
 
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Have you asked her to stop? What do you mean by sexually flirt? If she's causing you to lust after her, you should probably stop hanging out around her. I mean, if you have a girlfriend , you shouldn't be putting yourself in a situation where you know there's temptation if you can avoid it.
 
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jehovahjireh2007

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Amen.! May be you need to be straight with her.

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Yup. I agree with this. You need to ask her to stop and if she doesn't, then you need to tell her that you can't hang out with her any more as a result.
 
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at times like those its best to do the right thing fast or else you could risk finding yourself in a very hard situation. she sounds like sum one who wont give up so always stand your ground because the evil one only wants tempt you and steal from you.
 
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