Imminent divorce

We have been extremely broke because my wife's spending has been way out of control. We were really hard pressed and she stole money out of my wallet twice and denied it. We sold the old mobile for $13,500.00 three weeks ago, she pulsed out all of it hundreds at a time and spent it on drugs, or so she says. I think she has money for future drugs but she denies it. It's humanly impossible to do $9,500.00 worth of Dialaudid in less than three weeks. I told her last night either she leaves or I do. If she refuses to leave, I won't pay the electric bill that's overdue so the electricity and well pump will be off Thursday. She has a sister that is a nurse back in Ohio, I suggested that she go there. She will be close to her grandmother and parents. Maybe she will realize what she blew, a good husband and a nice home full of her pets in time.

she never was able to have children so animals have been her kids and I understand and try to feed them all. Seven dogs and three puppies, five cats, two horses and two bearded dragons. I told her, "You stole from us, all of us. You took the money we had for food for these guys, what am I going to do now?"

The worst part, I told her, is looking back at the bank account (which I should have been doing other than I trusted her) She pulsed out hundreds of dollars for drugs, picked her her friend that she got the drugs from, then came to my job needing money. I gave her $40.00 that i had earmarked for gas. Meanwhile, I was eating Ramen noodles at 15 cents a pop for lunch and driving 55 with the AC off to save gas.

How can people, even on drugs be so cruel to the ones that love them?

Thanks Stealth, things are rough right now but i know they will get better. I'll live longer without all of the stress of being broke all of the time. I do quite well by myself with my pension and job.