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I'm not an atheist anymore...

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You're still an atheist to me, but there are no negative things that I personally attach to the term.

I can understand labelling oneself with a more meaningful label than "atheist". I call myself a eudaimonist, after all. Atheism says very little about oneself. You are probably better off with a more descriptive label.

In any case, good luck with calling yourself an "existential nihilist". Sorry to say, but I do attach negative things to that term, and I doubt that I am the only one.


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Let me clear the air a bit. For all practical purposes I'm atheist. To me it just seems like too many atheists are starting to act just as dogmatic as religious people, and start organizations to promote atheism which I can't stand. I don't think there are fairies, but I'm not going to label myself an "afairyist" because I find it too ridiculous to even do so. And for that same reason I don't want to label myself as an atheist. I'd rather just say I don't think this or that is real. The non-existence of a god is so evident to me that I treat god, like I would a fairy, demon, or any other ridiculous thing people think is real. HOWEVER, when people's ridiculous beliefs start to directly affect me I'll stand up for what I THINK (not believe).

PS I'm falling asleep writing this so I hope I didn't botch my explanation... Ha. Probably did though....
 
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"The roadblocks of indifference, fancied self-sufficiency, prejudice and defiance often prove more solid and formidable for these people (those who have lost faith) than any erected by the unconvinced agnostic or even the militant atheist."
- from Step 2 in 12 and 12
 
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To me one sounds like "I'm not sure" and the other sounds like "I'm sure".
Atheism and agnosticism are part of two separate dichotomies. Agnosticism is a knowledge statement. Atheism is a conclusion. I'm an agnostic atheist.
 
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So what happens when people start attaching negative things to the term "existential nihilist"? You gonna quit calling yourself that to?
 
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I love the bolded part: Christians, who already believe you are devious and disingenuous if you call yourself an atheist, might think you are devious and disingenuous if you don't call yourself an atheist.

Darned to heck if you do, darned to heck if you don't, huh?
 
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I'm not labelling myself an existential nihilist, but that's how I think about everything for now until I can somehow overcome it. I had a nervous breakdown a year ago trying dig my way out of that, but I fell pretty far "down the rabbit hole" when I tried... Ooops.
 
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I don't personally subscribe to this logic when it comes to labels, but more power to you.

I agree in the sense that "atheist" says only what I'm not. It's a useful term to other people who care that I'm not a member of their religion, but it's not really useful for me when I want to tell people what's important to me. That's why I have "Other-Religion" on the side instead of atheist. Being Unitarian Universalist is more important to my identity than not being a theist.
 
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