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I need be far away from adultery games in web

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I need be far away from adultery games in web

I have decide to cut it off. If I do not repent I will be put into hell definitely. That is not simply a dummy Imagine. I know I will be saved in destiny, but if I put Him to test purposively, dare and should not He forsake me?

1Corinthians (NRSV)10:8 We must not indulge in sexual immorality as some of them did, and twenty-three thousand fell in a single day.

Psalms(NRSV)2:11 Serve the LORD with fear, with trembling

(NRSV)51:11-12 Do not cast me away from your presence, and do not take your holy spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and sustain in me a willing spirit.

Yeah that is my answer in Bible. I fear that I am in the lake of fire and sulfur too much! Please pray for me that I can get rid of adultery in mind. I need find true love in Yeshua Christ. And I don’t know how to deal with my Masturbation. Thanks.
 

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Is Marriage the best way to solve the need of Sex? But if i can not marry in recent years, how could I deal with it? In fact i need Masturbation nearly every week. Is there a better way to solve this problem? thanks
 
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Is Marriage the best way to solve the need of Sex? But if i can not marry in recent years, how could I deal with it? In fact i need Masturbation nearly every week. Is there a better way to solve this problem? thanks

ok... I'll try my best to answer your question(it's a tough one)

yes. marriage is the best way to solve the need of sex.

1Co 7:9 But if you cannot restrain your desires, go ahead and marry---it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

BUT you... no make it WE face a problem: what do we do before marriage??

If you think masturbation can help prepare you for marriage or serve as a temporary fulfillment before marriage, you are wrong. You will ended up having a wife that thinks you don't show enough affection for her(more info in this article: http://christianforums.com/t7123832-why-is-masturbation-wrong.html) After Every time you touch, you just keep coming for more, you'll never get enough of it.

why? because masturbation is a temporary fountain of fulfillment, it never quench you. It is an illusion, a mirage. Jesus says, "Those who drink this water will get thirsty again,"Joh 4:13

But do you know that there is a fountain of living water that you can drink that will quench your thirst and prepare you for marriage? Jesus then continues, "but those who drink the water that I will give them will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give them will become in them a spring which will provide them with life-giving water and give them eternal life." Joh 4:14.

Yusuphhai, drink the living water of Jesus, live a life that follows the footsteps of Jesus, have a heart that only seeks to please God, a life in PURITY. So "[FONT=&quot]stop paying attention to your sinful nature and satisfying its desires."(romans 13:14) We are to tame to flesh, not satisfy it! and this, will prepare you for the future: A happy, satisfactory marriage. Don't worry if the wait is long, God will grant it in the end
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Your heart is in the right place. Continue to seek the Lord. I will be praying for you.
 
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Thank you all. I have not (or dare not) view those dirty webs again till now. i can not give the links to post here for explaining how dirty those games are, but I know it made me fall into adultery in mind very seriously. I still have masturbation, i don't know when I will cut it off.
 
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If I might point you toward a resource, brother? I have to admit, I'm not pushing the specific denomination or anything but this has been a site that I've heard some good things about: Setting Captives Free. On this site, they have a 60-day interactive, online course about sexual purity and I believe that diving into the Word and renewing your mind through studying what God says about sex will completely release you from the grips of the online adultery games.

Praying for you!
 
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Where are these adultery games?
Do you mean video games with pornographic images?
Ugh, I'm guilty of playing these to. They are basically games where the goal is meeting a woman and performing a sex act on her in-game. It is often in verry explicit detail and somehwat interactive. You don't know how much I truthfully wish I didn't know what they are either.
 
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what adultery games on web ?
you mean hentai games ?


When people like us are sinning and we know we are but really want to stop, GoD will lend us a hand!

All you have to do is, pray when ever you mastrubate and ask GoD to give you strength to overcome it!
 
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Thank you for the link :www.settingcaptivesfree.com.

For a example, one e-games about sex leads one to take part in a story of mating with a woman or more. I wish I had not known it either, it made me guilty deeply.

I have stop playing (dirty) Sex e-games till now. But I indulge myself in playing War e-games this week. A smaller sin replaces a bigger sin. I think I can play this kind of e-game continently, but in fact it is often out of control.

I need help for one indulging in e-games, thanks again.
 
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