- Apr 13, 2020
- 497
- 396
- Country
- United States
- Gender
- Female
- Faith
- Eastern Orthodox
- Marital Status
- Single
My friend* had/has a crush on me. Actually it wasn’t a crush, it was obsession. When I hinted I didn’t feel the same way he just flirted more. I didn’t have the heart to reject him, so I let this go on for waaay to long. Finally I told him i was an idol to him and I stopped talking to him for a bit. He told my friend that he was finally becoming saved, and loving God and I was so happy and overjoyed to hear this! I was going to try to talk to him again.
Until my other friend reported that because I wasn’t talking to him he got to “misbehave.”
Cursing and crude jokes-
I wasn’t surprised, for when he and I were talking he did this.
I was sad- the only reason he tried to be a Christian was for me.
It’s a lose/lose either way. When I’m with him; he’s not praising God; he’s praising me. I’ve made him sin!
When I’m not with him; he is cursing, and doing sinful things.
What to do?! ):
Until my other friend reported that because I wasn’t talking to him he got to “misbehave.”
Cursing and crude jokes-
I wasn’t surprised, for when he and I were talking he did this.
I was sad- the only reason he tried to be a Christian was for me.
It’s a lose/lose either way. When I’m with him; he’s not praising God; he’s praising me. I’ve made him sin!
When I’m not with him; he is cursing, and doing sinful things.
What to do?! ):