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RoseofLima

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We all have a 100% chance of death...

I strongly agree with the others- check with multiple other doctors. I seriously can't imagine a situation where that would be true. I have a good friend who has a seriuos heart condition as well as Lupus-- and has 7 kids. It takes good prenatal care and diligent monitoring of her pregnancy and birth- but it is certainly not an impossibility.
 
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If I was 100% confident that pregnancy would put me at great danger, I would consider a tubal.

But it would take a lot to make me 100% sure.

Adoption is a noble and beautiful thing and well worth considering.

I pray you will find relief from the bitterness.
 
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Definately consult more doctors!

Adoption is a wonderful thing! One of my cousins was adopted from Tawian while his parents were stationed there with the military. One of my DH's cousins was also adopted. I can't imagine our family without either one of them!
 
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