helping a Bi friend?

Well, I too have a bisexual friend. When she first told me I freaked out. I couldn't understand it and it took me a long time to be able figure out how I must respond to her to have our friendship continue. I tried to tell her what the Bible said, but even though she herself was a Christian, she had accepted the lies of people who said that those parts of the Bible were out dated. The only thing I could really do was continue to be her friend and to still be there for her. As a christian, we are called to show the love of God to everyone, as you mentioned. Another way I look at it is, I have a friend who does drugs, I know its wrong and will hurt him in the future but he sees no problem with it. It's a reasonable stand for me to have since there are people on both sides of it. there are also people on both sides of the sexuality debate so your friend hopefully will be able to acknowledge that you have a different opinion and that should be okay in a friendship. The problem with this particular subject is that you want your friend to know where you stand, but you don't want them to feel that you don't except them. This is where me and my bisexual friend had to draw the line. She knows I don't agree with her, but all friends have things they disagree on. I won't agree that what she is doing is right, and when I am with her I do my very best to steer her away from things that may lead her into that type of sin or lust, but I don't give her a lecture about it. We are to show God's love though how we act. Maybe one day, your friend will see how you are christian, don't agree with her sexuality, but are still willing to stick around her. I suggest this because this is how I have been with my bisexual friend and recently she started commenting on how "maybe not all Christians are bad" and asking about my church....I don't know how you are viewing her struggle but one thing I would like to add is that it truly is a difficult struggle just like every other sin. And I myself have recently started struggling with thoughts in that area. I believe my struggles are born out of bad relationships and just wanting to feel loved, but this struggle isn't something I just decided to have. Struggling with sexuality is a real thing and whether or not your friend acknowledges this as a struggle, there will always be times when a sin will eat away at someone, and that is when you as her best friend can step in and show some of the freedom and grace that God gives you as a Christian. I really hope I helped>.<

We don't choose our sexuality but we can choose not to act on it. Does God love her of course but he doesn't want her to sin. See often times people say God made me this way but some people are born with urges to kill and end up being psychopaths does it mean they should embrace it. No

Be there for your friend. Letting her know you don't support her view is sufficient for now. There's no need to argue. Keep praying for her. And one day, when she wants to repent, she'll be able to talk about it with you and you can guide her through. Just be careful that while you are helping her, you are not pulled away by her ways. Stay very close to God yourself, as the battle is fierce and Satan is very tricky.

I know how you feel. I have my best friend I wanted to help so badly, but she wouldn't talk to me anymore. All I can do now is pray for her and wait patiently on the Lord.