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Have you struggled with this?

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I absolutely know this is wrong, but I am still struggling with it and desire some help. Anger/frustration with God makes no sense, gains nothing good, and is in direct violation to the first commandment. However, it is something that I am struggling with and I ask your prayers about.

I think it stems from unmet expectations, and seemingly unfair prosperity/"blessings" of people who find God laughable and reject Him willingly and unrepentantly. Yes, I know their end (and I pray that they change), but why are they always rejoicing down here? Why do the proud get more so they can become more proud?

And why does God seem slow or distant in answering our prayers? Again, I am not saying that my feelings are right, so please don't condemn me. But, if you have felt this way, AND you came out of it, please post with any helpful advice. Thanks alot
 

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Hi, Salty.

I seem to recall from some other thread in the past, that you're unable to receive my words as Truth (not sure though, so kindly forgive me if I'm mistaken), so I will be very brief and will not return to debate the point or even read here further (you can pm me if needed).

Most everything that happens with God's children the way you have expressed (too slow, etc.), can all be boiled down to the too greatly underestimated, basic Kingdon principle, summed up in the following:

". . . so that no flesh should glory in His Presence."

". . . so that no one can boast."

". . . Jesus did not commit Himself to them . . . for He knew what [evil still] was in man."

God most often does not move until He is certain we will properly handle what He bestows, us not afterward self-validating our entire walk (since many areas are nearly always still deficient), us not afterward attempting to partake of its glory (which God is extremely jealous to keep ti Himself, Him knowing that man cannot handle it, for it too greatly puffs us up), etc., etc.

The reason the church is so impotent today, is that most when they reach the conclusions you have, Salty, in their frustration will merely turn to whatever so-called "well-meaning" good works of sinful, actually self-righteous flesh they can invent, grit their teeth, dig in their heels, tell themselves no one else is doing it any better than they are, and then they humanistically proceed to get by the best they can.

Granted, the above are harsh words--as most of my words are, but nevertheless, I sincerely hope and pray they will somehow, someday if not now (perhaps copy and save it somewhere?), bring you such blessings from the Heavenly Father as you cannot even imagine for to ask--in Jesus' Name.

[Allegedly] in His Grace of Love for you, StillSalty, brotherjim
 
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Salty, I know what you mean to feel this righteous indignation toward those who do not know and honor the Lord, and also to feel anger when the Lord does not seem to be working within your timetable.

I spoke with my mentor about this years ago, and she recommended that I spend time reading Psalm 37 each day for a few months. I found it not only helped me deal with other's actions, but also reflect upon my own. More importantly, it built my faith in the Lord as I learned to trust more and more in the God of scripture, realizing that He wants me to freely express myself to Him just as David does in this and other Psalms.

~ Psalm 37 ~
Do not fret because of evil men or be envious of those who do wrong; for like the grass they will soon wither, like green plants they will soon die away.
 
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THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR POSTING THIS!!! This is an amazing Psalm! How silly we are to get frustrated


nhzname, thanks again, this advice was timely and well needed.
 
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Every person on the planet has struggled with frustration and disillusionment. Anyone who says otherwise is either lying or selling something. Job, Jeremiah, David, Elijah...everyone has because we're human and can't see the whole picture. In fact, Asaph wrote a psalm about it. It may comfort you.
 
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