• The General Mental Health Forum is now a Read Only Forum. As we had two large areas making it difficult for many to find, we decided to combine the Mental Health & the Recovery sections of the forum into Mental Health & Recovery as a whole. Physical Health still remains as it's own area within the entire Recovery area.

    If you are having struggles, need support in a particular area that you aren't finding a specific recovery area forum, you may find the General Struggles forum a great place to post. Any any that is related to emotions, self-esteem, insomnia, anger, relationship dynamics due to mental health and recovery and other issues that don't fit better in another forum would be examples of topics that might go there.

    If you have spiritual issues related to a mental health and recovery issue, please use the Recovery Related Spiritual Advice forum. This forum is designed to be like Christian Advice, only for recovery type of issues. Recovery being like a family in many ways, allows us to support one another together. May you be blessed today and each day.

    Kristen.NewCreation and FreeinChrist

  • Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

Status
Not open for further replies.
M

mbrob

Guest
This is part of a previous posting, but wanted to put it out there under a new thread to stimulate discussion.

When I was a child, I was taught "guilt is good." I since have been a "guilt addict." Can anyone relate?

Is guilt good? Even those who do not claim Christ experience guilt.

What is guilt? An emotion? Anxiety? Grief? We "feel" guilty and sometimes we "are" guilty. Is "chronic" guilt inconsistent with God's plan for us? If Christ's passion resulted in is us who believe being "blameless" before God (Ephesians 1), then why the persistent guilt?

If the feeling of guilt over actual sins results in sincere repentance, then I would say it is necessary, even "good" to an extent. However, since we are guaranteed forgiveness from God through Christ, should the guilt cease after confession? Seems to me it should cease, but it is rarely my experience.

When we "feel" guilt over confessed and forgiven sins, are we "stuck" in that sin? When we are on a "guilt binge" who gets our attention? Ourselves, God, or our neighbors? What, then, gets our attention? Sin, forgiveness, or love?

Should living a Christian life involve guilt to the extent to which many of us allow?

Would God have us live a completely different way, free of persistent guilt, fear, and doubt?

We are commanded rather to 1. Love God and 2. Love our neighbor as ourselves.

Where is the guilt in God's plan?

Excuse me while I take my lifelong guilt out back and give it it's proper burial....anyone else want to join me?
 

Pats

I'll take that comment with a grain of salt
Oct 8, 2004
5,554
308
51
Arizona, in the Valley of the sun
Visit site
✟29,756.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Libertarian
When guilt has accomplished the repentence, it should be forgotten.

That's true, friend. When my ex husband abused my son, I thought I just sat back and let it happen, but it was not my fault at all....

I needed to remember the Poem, Footprints, and The Bible.... but too many things clouded all of my senses and I believed a lie. Once you believe a lie anything can happen to you brain.

I let my child, my young child, and an abusive man on the same forum, Jesus, forgive me I did not know what I had done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Upvote 0
Status
Not open for further replies.