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Finding That Partner

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I know this is kinda' the wrong section, but I thought people in relationships would have a good idea and be able to help me out.

I'm 18 years old, I am totally committed on God and he is the man I live for. Always has been and always will be.

For nearly two years I've been waiting for that girl, you know the one we dream of.

I think I'm quite attractive, so it's not that girls think I'm ugly or anything. I just don't understand. In Feb I met this Christian girl and we became really good friends, I honestly believed she liked me. We're still really good friends now but in April she let me know we'd be better as friends.

There's another christian girl I quite like and would like to get to know better at the moment, but it's like the devil keeps telling me I'm not good enough and will never end up with her.

Don't know what to do. I love God with all my heart, and I'm a firm believer and follower. I guess we all get to a stage where we want to find a partner, I've felt like that for two years now and nothing.

Will I ever find that girl? I know everyone says 'God has a plan', and you've just gotta' be patient but it just seems like it'll never happen...

Thanks, God Bless
 

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God has a time for everything.

Instead of spending your time and energy in finding a partner, spend your energy in becoming a Godly man.

A girl doesn't need a boyfriend. She needs a Godly Husband that can show love like that of God. A man who is a leader and can make right decisions. Ask yourself if you're that man.

IF God has a person ready for you, he'll give it to you. Otherwise, stay single as you are, and become as much of that Godly image as possible.
 
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Maybe you're ready for that girl, but she's not ready for you. Just keep waiting. Most likely she'll come when you stop looking. That's how it happened for me. I stopped looking and ran straight into him. Both of you have to have your eyes on God for it to happen, though... like 2 baseball players completely focused on the fly ball they're about to catch... not looking where the other is going...

It ended up that I ran into my best friend....
 
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