• The General Mental Health Forum is now a Read Only Forum. As we had two large areas making it difficult for many to find, we decided to combine the Mental Health & the Recovery sections of the forum into Mental Health & Recovery as a whole. Physical Health still remains as it's own area within the entire Recovery area.

    If you are having struggles, need support in a particular area that you aren't finding a specific recovery area forum, you may find the General Struggles forum a great place to post. Any any that is related to emotions, self-esteem, insomnia, anger, relationship dynamics due to mental health and recovery and other issues that don't fit better in another forum would be examples of topics that might go there.

    If you have spiritual issues related to a mental health and recovery issue, please use the Recovery Related Spiritual Advice forum. This forum is designed to be like Christian Advice, only for recovery type of issues. Recovery being like a family in many ways, allows us to support one another together. May you be blessed today and each day.

    Kristen.NewCreation and FreeinChrist

  • Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

Status
Not open for further replies.

LightHearted

No Storm Can Shake My Inmost Calm
Dec 8, 2002
12,877
579
46
Midwest
Visit site
✟40,272.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
Does anybody else here suffer from Fibromyalgia?

I hope that this thread can serve as a support group for all of us, that we can share our experiences, what has worked, what has not worked, and what we have learned.

I was diagnosed with FMS this past Spring, and have been struggling with my symptoms. I am constantly tired, always sore, and the types of medication that I'm allowed to take are limited due to my line of work.

I'd like to hear from anyone else that suffers from FMS.
 

waitsonthelord

sojourner
Jun 23, 2004
151
3
74
Massachusetts
✟22,809.00
Faith
Christian
Politics
US-Republican
Hi!
I have fibro, a back injury, IBS, etc. etc.... Everyday it seems something new pops up Fibro related. I was diagnosed back in 1998 but really did not suffer the greatest until I was injured at work when a box fell on my back. Surgery did not help and I have been out of work since. My days are filled with pain..how about you? I go from one flare to another! It will be good to hear from others who have this.
 
Upvote 0

allieisme

I am ME
Apr 1, 2002
14,995
359
49
✟19,803.00
Faith
Pentecostal
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Republican
LH..
Omigosh, I didnt know you had this.. I too have been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia a couple of months ago, its horrible, especially with 3 kids! I feel horrible most every day since I've been diagnosed with it. It literally feels like I've been run over by a truck most days.
This thread is good, kinda like a support group
I've found that most medicines or muscle relaxers do not work, and the only way they do make me feel somewhat better is if I double the dose.
What are you guys taking, or are you taking anything?
 
Upvote 0

LightHearted

No Storm Can Shake My Inmost Calm
Dec 8, 2002
12,877
579
46
Midwest
Visit site
✟40,272.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
I have more bad days than good. Most days, I wish I could just stay at home and veg out, but that's not possible... I work full time, have a very stressful job, and have pretty much depleted my sick leave account.
 
Reactions: Kristi1
Upvote 0

LightHearted

No Storm Can Shake My Inmost Calm
Dec 8, 2002
12,877
579
46
Midwest
Visit site
✟40,272.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
Allie...

I'm sorry to hear that you have this too. This is so lame!

When people ask me what FMS feels like, I usually tell them that it feels like I have the flu times 10.

The amount of medications that I can take are limited due to my line of work, and the things that I am allowed to take usually don't work very well. I take 600mg of Ibuprophen 3 times a day, and Myo Malic Acid 2 times a day.

I usually can't sleep at night, and wake up feeling like I haven't slept at all. Thankfully, I'm going on vacation in a week (for two weeks! ), so I might be able to get some rest during that time.
 
Upvote 0

RufustheRed

Disabled Veteran
Jan 29, 2004
2,561
60
✟25,582.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others
Hello partners in pain. I was diagnosed with what is now call Fibromyalgia in 1981. The exacerbate matters, I had two back surgeries prior to that. I can't help but notice that I am the only male posting at this time, which is okay. I do get frustrated at times when the local hospitals will have FM seminars at their "womens centers," when a full 25% of FM victims are male. I managed to get through a military career, college and some graduate school, when finally my body just started shutting down, i.e. days without sleep because of pain and then just total exhaustion. Obtaining a heart blockage did not help matters much, either.

After teaching the Veterans Administration what FM and mysofacial pain syndrome is, I had to go through the same issues with social security, but like they say, third time is a charm. I am now receiving 100% VA Disability & SSA. My doctor is very compassionate and we have reach the right combination of drugs that I can stay relatively comfortable. My biggest fear is what do I do when he retires? I have had doctors tell me (1) that I should be over this by now (2) it is purely a figment of my imagination because there is no objective test they can do to prove/disprove it (never mind the trigger points bulging from my back and neck) (3) only women can get get this, blah, blah,blah. To each person who has some sarcastic remedy for this damnedable disease, I tell them to go on a lecture tours, make a lot of money and proove to us the he/she has found the cure. Then and only then will I give back every dime of disablility. I was forced into permanent retirement when I was fifty-two. There was this nurse at church wo had the audacity to say that I didn't look disabled, even though I sue a cane to walk. I had no intention of having a couch potato retirement, but here I am. Drugged, tired, sometimes snappy with those whom I love dearly and have been going through some major depression issues recently. Time to change THAT medication, I guess.

Can you believe it, though? I still think that the Lord has blessed me beyond what I deserve. That is the only thing that keeps me going.

In three weeks, my wonerful wife and I are traveling to Minnesota for a family reunion. Driving for any extented period can be very painful and my wife doesn't drive. Trips I used to make in a twelve hour day, I now have to plan on two six hour days, plus a motel room. Then my in-laws tell me that I should have been able to make it in one day! Some day, some way, I'm going to take a branding irons to the next one who says that to me and when they say how much it hurts, I just tell them, "You can do it."

Well, thanks for allowing a male voice to vent. I pray that none of you are afflicted for twenty-four years.

Have a nice week-end.

Just ol' Sven
 
Upvote 0

ProCommunioneFacior

I'm an ultra-traditionalist, run for your life ;)
Oct 30, 2003
11,154
562
44
Mesa, Arizona
Visit site
✟36,647.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
I do not know too much about it, but my girlfriend's mother has known for quite a while now that she had fibromyalgia, through trial and error she has found the right nutritional formula to alleviate some of her pain. She is quite healthy now and she has done a lot of research on this subject, I will ask her for any information that she can share.

God Bless.
 
Upvote 0

ProCommunioneFacior

I'm an ultra-traditionalist, run for your life ;)
Oct 30, 2003
11,154
562
44
Mesa, Arizona
Visit site
✟36,647.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
About a year ago, my girlfriend's mother sat down with the family and explained some of the stuff that she has learned. Her husband took some notes. Here are the notes that he took:

FIBROMYALGIA NOTES



SYMPTOMS

  • Pain (everywhere or anywhere, any time, all intensities, etc.)
    • Myofacial tissue
    • Trigger points
    • Poor O2 availability
  • Smells - certain ones are bothersome, others can cause nausea and headaches
  • Hormone fluctuations cause imbalance / problems
  • Often occurs with white women, about 6 months after 1st child
    • Depletes body of nutrients
  • Fibro Fog
  • Irritable bowel
  • Sleep disturbances
    • Poor sleep cycle (awake in 3rd stage)
    • Restless legs (H2O, Ca, , helps)
  • Yeast Infections
    • Avoid wine, cheese, bread, tofu, and other aged foods
  • Sensitivity to cold (need Ca)
  • Renoids syndrome (hands turn tinges of red, blue, pasty white, and nail beds can become blue); Need O2


NEEDS

  • Lysine (for viruses, shingles, )
    • Found in shellfish: shrimp, oysters, mussels, lobster, etc.
  • B Complex (to feed body)
  • B6 (for serotonin)
  • 5HTTP (for nervous system). Take with B6.
  • ____________
    • Deep-sea cold water fish: salmon, etc. (not pond fed!)
  • Sleep
    • Milk, Honey, almonds
    • Darkness, comfortable and cool
    • 5HTTP
  • Foods for Nervous system cycle:
    • Tryptophane - 5HTTP - Serotonin (29 types) - Melatonin
    • Turkey, bananas, peanuts, __________ , __________
  • Morning - to awaken brain
    • ½ apple for malic acid and boron
    • Potassium
  • Headaches due to pressure changes (1/2 can coke and 1 aspirin)
  • No White Sugar
  • No White Flour
  • No Stress
  • Stay close to God
 
Upvote 0

ProCommunioneFacior

I'm an ultra-traditionalist, run for your life ;)
Oct 30, 2003
11,154
562
44
Mesa, Arizona
Visit site
✟36,647.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
allieisme,

I notice that you are from Arizona, so is my girlfriend's mom.

I can attest that whatever she is doing is working for her.

I remember going over to their house, and she was often in bed not able to get up. She also seemed very tired. Also, I remeber there were times at Church, when her husband would have to slowly help her up stairs.

Nowadays, I never see her in bed unable to move, she always seems full of energy, I never see her struggling up stairs anymore, and now she is working full time as a school nurse.

I do believe that different things work for different people, but I think that she is of the opinion that medications are not the answer, but rather there are natural products that will help.

Anyways, I'll try to share some more info, or maybe she will come on here sometime if she finds the time.

I hope everybody here finds something that works for them.
 
Upvote 0

ever

Regular Member
Mar 13, 2004
129
3
53
Canada
✟22,776.00
Faith
Christian
I developed fibromyalgia at the age of eleven, possibly due to another joint/muscle disorder. Over the years I have had different symptoms come and go, with som e symptoms being so severe that I never finished high school, was not able to get a drivers license, and for a few years I could not read. I have a applied for a disability pension as I haven't been able to find any work that I can sustain.

I don't take medication anymore except for the occassional painkiller/anti-inflammatory. I have readjusted every bit of my daily living to accommodate my illness and get the most out of life, and this is what works best for me.

There was this nurse at church wo had the audacity to say that I didn't look disabled, even though I sue a cane to walk.

It really bothers me when I hear things like "But you look just fine!" People are very uninformed about diseases like FMS. And some who are informed, still don't believe it. My own sister recenly made the comment that I should start cleaning houses for a living. I have trouble cleaning my own house. You would think that after seeing me so ill for so many years she would 'get it'. I think chronic illness can be a really difficult concept for healthy people to grasp. I recently saw a link in these forums to something called the Spoon Theory, about a girl with Lupus, that I think puts it into perspective very nicely:

http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/spoons.htm


-ever
 
Upvote 0

mpshiel

Senior Veteran
Nov 22, 2003
2,069
400
54
I've been told "Sodom" so I guess that's close eno
Visit site
✟26,734.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
My mother has FMS quite badly, where she has lost use of limbs for prolonged periods. I have been trying to convince her to try the medicinal marjianna spray that you can get in Canada as I have heard it can really reduce the pain symptoms but she is still too afraid of the stigma (Even though it is totally legal and you don't smoke it) - they are introducing the same thing in the UK - has anyone else tried it and is it good for FMS?
 
Upvote 0

allieisme

I am ME
Apr 1, 2002
14,995
359
49
✟19,803.00
Faith
Pentecostal
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Republican
I have it quite badly too.. I take Soma which is a muscle relaxer 4 times a day, and then vicadin as needed.. I sleep terribly, and it just stinks!
But I do know that whatever the reason I've gotten this is to share my stories with others, I do think that is God's intentions
 
Upvote 0

LightHearted

No Storm Can Shake My Inmost Calm
Dec 8, 2002
12,877
579
46
Midwest
Visit site
✟40,272.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
How well does Soma work for you, Allie?

I fear that if I'm not able to manage my pain, I'll have to find another line of work that won't require me to have a Medical. I'm not allowed to take most drugs, because of the impact that they will have on me at work.
 
Upvote 0

allieisme

I am ME
Apr 1, 2002
14,995
359
49
✟19,803.00
Faith
Pentecostal
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Republican
Well to tell you the truth LH, it only works while it is affecting my body, and I dont know how many hours the medicine is supposed to work for, but as long as that is, that is about how long it works, so sometimes I have to take more than 4 in a day. I just went to my dr yesterday and he gave me a medicine he said it was a anti depresant, even though I'm already on those, he gave a perscription, I cant remember whats its called, but its to help me sleep at night.. I sleep horrible at night and I wake up constantly with horrible dreams.
Does anyone else have horrible dreams, I mean that way you up and you think your still in it? I dont know if it is the medicaiton or what
Also LH if you take Soma, depends on the dose, but you might not be able to drive, its one of those drowsy drugs, and I also notice if I take mine too close together, I get like this drunk feelings and its hard to walk, so obviously I try not to take them so close together.
 
Upvote 0

KennySe

Habemus Papam!
Aug 6, 2003
5,450
253
61
Visit site
✟29,554.00
Faith
Catholic
For a non-chemical means of dealing with fibro, I highly recommend the Nikken products.
I found this online. http://www.nutritionsandy.com/FMS story.htm

The insoles go into shoes and are magnetic... the best of all brands is Nikken.
(I have them, and i say that EVERY human being needs these.
www.nikken.com/magsteps

There are Nikken persons throughout the world, and they have free introductory get-togethers to see the products and to experience them, for free.

Would you be willing to try something FOR FREE, that might take your discomfort away?

You go to one of the get-togethers, one of them will loan you the magstep insoles for a week, and no obligation beyond that.

I don't want to say more, lest I come across as a commercial. If you are willing to try this FOR FREE, send me a PM and I'll find out where a get-togther is near you (My Mom is one and I am too sorta).
 
Upvote 0

LightHearted

No Storm Can Shake My Inmost Calm
Dec 8, 2002
12,877
579
46
Midwest
Visit site
✟40,272.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
Oh, Allie.

I will keep praying for you.

I went to a healing mass today. It was the second one that I've been to. Today I got an answer to my prayers. It wasn't the answer that I was looking for, but it was indeed an answer. God let me know that I too can help others. I'm not quite sure in which manner He wants me to help others, but I have Fibro for a reason, and I will not let it get the better of me.

Thanks for the info, Kenny. I will definitely look into it.
 
Upvote 0

allieisme

I am ME
Apr 1, 2002
14,995
359
49
✟19,803.00
Faith
Pentecostal
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Republican
One of my friends from church is bugging me about a chiropractor, I dont like going to those, I dont know why, I just dont.
I've been working out lately, I hear thats a good suggestions when your not quite feeling so great, at first it made me more sore, but I've been working out steadily for a couple of weeks, and the pain is kinda starting to go away..
 
Upvote 0
Wow, I was looking at the "Physically Challenged" threads, just hoping to see something about fibromyalgia, and when I did my heart skipped a beat! I haven't looked at all the ages that posted, but I believe I'm the youngest one, so far that's said anything, that has Fibromyalgia. I'm 16/f/NC.
Hearing everyones descriptions, about "feeling like I've been run over by a truck", "pain filled days", and "Wow, but you look fine!", I've used, or heard. My mom has Fibromyalgia, too. Along with other sorts of pains, and things.
Right now I have a list of things I have.. Some stuff is, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Mitral Valve Prolapse, Arthritis, and I have migraines alot, and I'm usually always sore, I bruise easily, too. Like someone said, I have more bad days than good. I'm constantly nauseated, but rarely throw up. It's just an on going all day thing. I get random pains on days, all probably fibro related, and something new always has to join me. Lol
It's so awesome to see that others have it, not because they have it, but because I can relate to them having it. I hope to talk to some of y'all more. I'm usually always open about my stuff, and never back down to questions.
To go back to what someone said, about people saying "Oh, but you look fine!", I've gotten that, and so has my mother. Sure, we look fine, but we can always cover it up most times.
My mom, has mitral vavle prolapse syndrome, where the blood, goes back up into the valve, back to the heart where it's not suppose to go, it backs up, so to speak. It's hard to explain unless you have it. Which thankfully I don't, I just have the prolapse part. I have some pretty scary moments sometimes though. So does my mom. She can get so weak.
Anyways, to wrap this up. I'm so glad that I found this thread!
It's nice meeting all of you.
 
Upvote 0
Status
Not open for further replies.