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I had a dream about my neighbors dog.

She is a precious little mess in reality and I have feared running over her many times when I leave my house. I have asked my neighbor to please keep her inside and I have told him I truly fear running over her. All he can tell me is that he has spanked her and that if I run over her it's the dog's fault. His wife has started keeping her inside when we leave for work.

My dream is of her coming to our house and me petting her. She rolled over on her back in submission to me. I then ate her right leg. After I did, I was afraid I had killed her, but she survived and walked away from me to go back home. My thoughts as she walked away were of hoping that my neighbor would not notice that her right leg was missing.

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Ew. Combined with your signature ... (you might not have noticed).

Reverse and think TOTALLY symbolically.

A leg relates to mobility, strength, the ability to get around. [Symbolic You] used it for your own consumption, hoping the owner wouldn't notice but also being aware of fatal risks.

Think of what mobility/ability might be...

- A church that has a great team of volunteers, who is used by a larger ministry, but then overworked or misused, disillusioned.

- A hyper friend with potential but who is sometimes reckless-- speaking bad gossip of them in a way that could partially disable their reputation. Then worrying their parents/teachers/youth leaders might retaliate.

I could suggest more options, but just trying to get you away from the guilt reality for a moment.
 
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Ew. Combined with your signature ... (you might not have noticed).he he. Do you have any Chinese ancestry?

Assuming you don't leave too early in the morning, revving the car a little can help scare any animals away.

Dogs are loyal & territorial.

My dream is of her coming to our house This one stayed outside its normal territory & responsibility where there is risk. and me petting her. It's friendliness caused to lose sight of the normal boundaries is should respect to be gratified by a prerson other than the one it should remain loyal to. She rolled over on her back in submission to me. I then ate her right leg. After I did, I was afraid I had killed her, but she survived and walked away from me to go back home. My thoughts as she walked away were of hoping that my neighbor would not notice that her right leg was missing.

In addition to the applications mentioned above, another one I see is an encouragement to pray for protection of marriages of people in your church, people who are close to you, or perhaps people whp may be struggling to recover after an act of unfaithfulness. With the Lord's help & forgiveness between partners, healing does occur & the marriage can be stronger.

In terms of a potential personal application, the graphic repulsive aspect of the dream can be a warning of ugly consequences down the track if something which seems innocent is developed further- for example if you are finding your feelings starting to go out towards a man other than your husband. If this is the case I'd suggest avoiding contact with that person.
 
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Cn-- oh gee, Firewater.
This one stayed outside its normal territory & responsibility where there is risk.
Good point.
ugly consequences
Notice how [you] were not even aware of your own guilt until afterward, and then you were appalled at yourself.

The possibility of unfaithfulness seems to come in at the concern for being caught. The protag was not afraid to commit the offense, but then was afraid of a usual negative response from [neighbors].

In your dream, did you feel like they were to blame for their negligence? I wonder how that aspect plays into the guilt you felt. There might be a parallel situation where the remorse is heavy but the offender is holding out in hope of a twinge of relief because they have someone to blame.

I think about some of the churches that have endured scandals lately. You felt continually protective of the victim, even though you ended up hurting it.
 
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Interesting comments; took an unexpected direction.

Yea, I guess my signature does have a bit of a twang to it. I mainly put that there b/c so many people I know have died and sometimes the only consolation I have is in the memories and love that remains. Additionally, my son suffers with a chronic condition that has no cure.

Anyway, back to the dream. In my dream, I didn't think of their negligence. In reality, I struggle with my neighbor putting the blame on the dog if I do run over her.

About a month before this started with my neighbor, I did run over a dog in the woods with a vehicle. My husband went and put the body to rest in the woods, said that it was killed instantly, flea infested, probably sick and probably did it a favor. I don't know what to do with my feelings about the dog I killed. My priest said for me to pray for the family who may have lost the dog, so I did.

I sometimes think I committed sin by killing the dog. I hate to think that I did kill the dog. Which is why I am so afraid of running over this other dog. I wonder how I would feel if I did run over the dog, knowing her, knowing her name as opposed to how I felt and still feel over the dog I didn't know.

I will pray for a strengthening of marriages and family.

You are right, I did feel protective of the dog although I did hurt her.

thanks for the feedback!

 
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I hate to think that I did kill the dog. Which is why I am so afraid of running over this other dog.
Oh, that explains a lot, thanks for sharing. It must be hard to deal with the emotions; it might take some time. But know that unintended damage happens to other people too.

It might feel more unresolved when you haven't been able to communicate with the owner, if there was one. Normally we'd walk down the street and apologize, sense their reaction, try to sooth emotions on both sides. You missed that moment of someone saying they forgave you.

If it persists, mbe you could put a formal apology ad in the paper or Craigslist to let the owners know to stop searching.

The guilt in your dream that was generated by other people. Worrying about what the neighbors would think, fearing their criticism. Maybe that sort of fear of others' words has been sitting with you a while. Stretch your dream emotions into other areas of life that might overlap.

We sometimes hear criticisms on TV or in public, and guard ourselves from having to face that ourselves. I would guess that occasionally people misinterpret how your son's illness came on-- people say rude things (and I am overstepping right now too, so delete this if you want). People make careless accusations like, "you shouldn't have had him vaccinated," or "you should have had more vitamins when pregnant," "you didn't have enough faith." Leading parents to internalize guilt. But they don't step out to help him or you, even in little ways.

These tiny -or large- comments can pile up and make us jumpy about what people think of us.

I have had some things in life that took unexpected turns and caused unwarranted guilt. It is even hard to type out the word "unwarranted" because it feels like I am absolving myself, shaking off responsibility. It can be very hard to see the reality of the situation, like a dog running in front of your car too quickly for you to prevent the accident.

It's a good time to face what you think of yourself, and to set the reality back in place. You didn't want to be the person you became on the basis of the accident. We judge ourselves sternly.
 
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Your words bring me comfort.

I like your idea about taking out an ad on Craig's List. I think I will do that.

Not to worry about overstepping, you haven't. You say kind words compared to what many have said. Now that son in an adult, I have to endure comments about how he is not doing enough to help his condition. I tire of saying how his condition has no cure.

I cry out to God and He comforts my heart; He humbles the anger I feel when I want to scream and cuss instead of being polite.


THANKS GOD!
 
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