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Does God Need Your Permission in Order to Save You?

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So to be clear, are you using these texts to say that man can indeed please God in the flesh? If not, what exactly is your point?
Oh, good grief. Can you please quit playing dumb?
I give you answers and you just ignore them and ask the same question again.

Do you really believe God turns away anyone who is truly seeking? No where does it say the spirit of man can't seek God. It says we can't in the flesh, but we are more than flesh.
 
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If we are more than flesh, then there’s no reason for Paul to make a distinction. However, he does. In Romans 8 he makes a clear distinction between being in the flesh and being in the Spirit.

He also addressed those who seek God in chapter 3.


There is none who understands,
There is none who seeks for God;
— Romans 3:11

I’m sorry that you are experiencing frustration. It’s honestly not my intent. My intent is to hopefully show that you are making assertions that you cannot support with scripture.
 
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All mature adults have a God given “faith” ability that allows them to trust (have faith in) something or someone. We are told not to put our trust in idols like some people.

A saving faith happens when a person directs the “faith” trust they do have toward God.

The same Greek word can be translated “faith” or “faithfulness”, so keep that in mind when talking about what our gift is, since faithfulness is not the same as saving faith.

The unbelieving sinner just humbly “choosing” to accept pure charity is not anything noble, holy, righteous, worthy or honorable, so like the prodigal son it is something he can do for selfish reasons.

You try to explain away the prodigal son’s “coming to his senses” as the son first being “born again”, but the context suggests otherwise. The prodigal son’s bad choices, which caused him to reach the very bottom of starving to death and being a Jew having to feed swine, brought the prodigal son to his senses. Any sinner can look up see where he is headed and not want to go there. The son could have chosen to: be macho, pay the piper, take the punishment he fully deserves, not pester his father further and not fuel his brother’s contempt, by starving to death in the pigsty. That is the spiritual truth we gain.

Paul’s teaching does not contradict the idea: “The unbelieving sinner can for unrighteous reasons humbly accept God’s pure charity.”

In the parables of the banquets, not all those invited went to the banquet and the Master did not kidnap his guests to get them there. The call seems to be the hard to refuse invitation and all the guests were invited (called).
 
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Y'all exchanges are like watching a reality show. Housewives of Atlanta. And you are only writing this...Some of it comes accross Haughty..
High minded..
 
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He makes the distinction so he can then encourage us to follow the Spirit and not the flesh.
And the verse you quoted is a quote from the Psalms.
The fool[a] says in his heart,
“There is no God.”
They are corrupt, their deeds are vile;
there is no one who does good.

He is talking about people who are fools, who have said in their heart that there is no God. This is not a statement about whether they CAN seek God or not. It's the situation of the one who refuses to.
 
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You can’t take Paul’s comment out of context. He didn’t write it in hopes that the hearers would look up the reference.

As to your first comment, if a Christian can’t please God in the flesh, why would you think the unregenerate could?

You are very close to supporting the heretical view of Pelagianism.
 
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You can’t take Paul’s comment out of context. He didn’t write it in hopes that the hearers would look up the reference.
Why do you think the Hearers didn't know the Psalms? Surely they were part of the early Christians worship.
 
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As to your first comment, if a Christian can’t please God in the flesh, why would you think the unregenerate could?

You are very close to supporting the heretical view of Pelagianism.
Again, I did not say anyone can please God in the flesh. We can, however respond to him from the spirit. We were all of us unregenerate when we responded to his conviction.
 
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Why do you think the Hearers didn't know the Psalms? Surely they were part of the early Christians worship.
I didn’t say that they didn’t know the psalms. The point is that Paul was making a larger argument. It’s arrogant to say that he meant something else entirely.
 
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Again, I did not say anyone can please God in the flesh. We can, however respond to him from the spirit. We were all of us unregenerate when we responded to his conviction.
We we respond, are we in the flesh or in the Spirit?
 
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I didn’t say that they didn’t know the psalms. The point is that Paul was making a larger argument. It’s arrogant to say that he meant something else entirely.
"You can’t take Paul’s comment out of context. He didn’t write it in hopes that the hearers would look up the reference."
They would have known it by heart, most likely.
"The Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God. 11 For who knows a person’s thoughts except their own spirit within them? In the same way no one knows the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. 12 What we have received is not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may understand what God has freely given us. 13 This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual realities with Spirit-taught words.[c] 14 The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit. 15 The person with the Spirit makes judgments about all things, but such a person is not subject to merely human judgments, "

Of course, he's talking here to Christians who already have the Spirit. But because of your overall theology, you have to assume the Spirit doe not reveal himself to all people, but the verse says the Spirit searches all things.
The Spirit bridges the communication gap between ourselves and God. He searches and understands what is spiritual and makes it possible for us to perceive it. This isn't limited to just a few. The Spirit came to convict the world. John 16:8
 
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The person without the Spirit does not accept the things of God. That would include the gospel.
 
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The person without the Spirit does not accept the things of God. That would include the gospel
Who doesn't God speak to? Who doesn't' God convict? Paul says even nature shows God so that men are without excuse. If God only speaks to a few, the rest have the perfect excuse.
 
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Again, I did not say anyone can please God in the flesh. We can, however respond to him from the spirit. We were all of us unregenerate when we responded to his conviction.
Who doesn't God speak to? Who doesn't' God convict? Paul says even nature shows God so that men are without excuse. If God only speaks to a few, the rest have the perfect excuse.
Would this passage apply:


For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men.
 
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Who doesn't God speak to? Who doesn't' God convict? Paul says even nature shows God so that men are without excuse. If God only speaks to a few, the rest have the perfect excuse.
Well, it is written in God's Word that no man has an excuse, (regardless if they think God spoke to them or not) ,
and God goes on and tells why.

There are multitudes who , IF they bother to pray, God does not even hear their prayers. He also says why in His Word, so again, they are left holding the bag (responsible for their sins) with no excuse.
 
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For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good
Yes, and that's another verse where Calvinists change the meaning of "all." to mean "some."
 
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Who doesn't God speak to? Who doesn't' God convict? Paul says even nature shows God so that men are without excuse. If God only speaks to a few, the rest have the perfect excuse.
The passage you quoted said the person without the Spirit does not accept the things of God. That’s not Reformed Theology. That’s right from scripture.
 
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Would this passage apply:


For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men.
The context will show that all men (people) doesn’t refer to every single person, but to all types of people. Read the 10 verses before it.
 
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Yes, and that's another verse where Calvinists change the meaning of "all." to mean "some."
Nope. All means all. It’s just that “all” has more than one definition. And we aren’t universalists.
 
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